That makes sense Sanibel if you didn't overmiss one huge thing, and thats the earth is warming and therefore while there is more inthe way of extreme warm events the cold events are become less extreme simply because the poles aren't quite as cold as they used to be. So how can you get cool spells getting more extreme when the cold pools that feed us that cold in the N.hemisphere are slowly decaying?
It's a sophisticated science I don't want to pretend I myself have a studied knowledge of. But you have to be careful with general assumptions. By your own example deserts should very hot places because the mean of 114* daytime temperatures should be high. But they get downright cold at night because of other factors like, humidity, heat radiation etc.
You have to look at global warming energy as a wind or force acting on a great body of water. The more energy you put into that body of water the higher the waves get. Weather troughs are simply "waves" in the atmosphere. The more energy the higher the waves. So, even if the global mean is rising deeper amplitude is capable of bringing unseasonably cooler temperatures further south because the weather systems have the energy to yank that cool air down from further north. Just as warm air can be pulled from the south. The second dimension at which this occurs is the vertical axis where deeper layered airmasses can result from this extra energy. It is possible the strong Highs that guided Dean were enhanced by this energy. A bigger "wave," so to speak, of High pressure. But you have to be careful in your analogy above, since the total change, so far, is only around 1 degree in the mid-latitudes so far. So the air hasn't been warmed that much, yet, to carry your theory.
As for the sub-900 storms. Those records being broken are a red flag that warm oceans are supporting a higher level of instability allowing for stronger storms as seen in the record pressures. You can't easily rationalize away the GOM low pressure record being broken twice in the same year as well as the Atlantic record. What is that crying out?