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gtalum wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.
Judgmental much?
Stratosphere747 wrote:gtalum wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.
Judgmental much?
It's not so much about being "judgmental" G, it's about simple respect. Especially in the case of what we deem an adult male.
If “he" goes on a first date for the sole purpose of getting laid and refuses to give her the time of day ever again because she did not comply, should tell her enough about his character. It would me……
Scott
sunny wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:gtalum wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.
Judgmental much?
It's not so much about being "judgmental" G, it's about simple respect. Especially in the case of what we deem an adult male.
If “he" goes on a first date for the sole purpose of getting laid and refuses to give her the time of day ever again because she did not comply, should tell her enough about his character. It would me……
Scott
It's nice to know men like you still exist, Scott
sunny wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:gtalum wrote:Stratosphere747 wrote:It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.
Judgmental much?
It's not so much about being "judgmental" G, it's about simple respect. Especially in the case of what we deem an adult male.
If “he" goes on a first date for the sole purpose of getting laid and refuses to give her the time of day ever again because she did not comply, should tell her enough about his character. It would me……
Scott
It's nice to know men like you still exist, Scott
cajungal wrote:Okay. Let me explain what led to this thread. I was just too rushed up to get to work this morning to type it all out. And I am very embarrased about it, but since none of you personally know me, I guess I will type it out. I highly doubt this guy reads Storm2k, so don't think he will come across me getting this off my chest.
The Saturday night before last, a co-worker who happens to be a good friend of mine went out to a nightclub nearby. And after hitting the dance floor, I ended up dancing with this guy the rest of the night. At the end of the night, he asked for my number, so I gave him my cell phone number. He told me he just moved here from Texas shortly before Hurricane Rita hit here. He told me he was 27 (going to be 28 in March) and no kids. That is not much younger than me. I am 29 and it is hard to find a guy in my age range with no kids and have never been married.
Well, anyway, he starts calling me every single day. Like 3 times a day. He was even calling me from his job on his lunch break. He seemed like a really nice guy over the phone and seemed like the shy type. I am shy until I get to know someone and I am always quiet over the phone usually. We had it all planned to go on a date of dinner and the movies this past Friday night. But, the weird thing is that he said that I was going to have to drive because his truck was still in Texas. He was staying at his boss house and having him for transportation. I thought that was strange. Rita hit 3rd week of September and here we are the last week of January and he still never went get his truck? Well, he told me he was staying all the way on the other side of town. A good 45 minute drive from my house since I don't exactly live in Houma. It takes me 15 minutes just to get to Houma. So, I did not feel comfortable driving that way by myself because I never drive on that side of Houma. So, I asked my co-worker if her and her husband would not mind coming with me. Sort of like a double date. She said sure. Okay, Friday night comes along, I get off work at 3. I drive home, take a shower, get dressed, etc... All ready for the date. I drive to my co-workers house, so she would not have to drive 20 minutes out of her way to come get me. I get half way to her house and my cell phone starts ringing. It is my date. He tells me look I am going to be running late. I still did not get off work yet and I am waiting for my paycheck. I tell him that is okay, I am just going to go to my co-workers house and for him to just call me whenever he was ready for us to go pick him up. I get to my co-workers house and wait around for him to call me back. He calls back at 7 p.m. He says I am just getting home from work and I don't think I will be able to make dinner tonight. Let's just go out to Yesterdays. Yesterdays is the club where we met. I said in a very nice way, I really need to eat. I did not eat anything all day because I thought we were going out to dinner. And my co-worker and her husband did not eat either because of that reason also. And if I go out to a club and drink on a empty stomach, I will get sick. He starts making excuses and says well I got to go shower and I got to run errands and everything. I said fine, go shower, and if you have to run errands that can't wait, we will take you after dinner. He finally says okay. And that he will call me back after he gets ready. I said okay. So, I wait and I wait, getting very hungry by this time. It got to be 8:00 and no phone call back. I knew it does not take a guy that long to get ready. Most guys can be out the shower and dressed in 20 minutes or less. So, at 8:00, I got sick of waiting for him to call back. So, I called him. No answer. I kept calling all the way until 8:45 and still no answer. I told my co-worker, I think I just got stood up. I was very upset at this point and very hungry. So, we finally decide to go out to eat without him. I was just going to be the 3rd wheel with my co-worker and her husband and have to pay for my own meal. We ended up at Lonestar. There was a wait for a table and it was after 9 p.m. before we got seated. I was still extremly upset because I still did not get a phone call back. Then, Lonestar turned out to be a disaster as if my night was not bad enough. I ordered an onion mum just to hold me over until the food comes out. Well, my co-worker and her husband get their food, but not me. Our waitress was clueless and just runs off. Like this night could get any worse! I was upset and asked to speak to a manager and got my meal for free. That was about the only good thing that came out of the night. And my food was cold and not good when I FINALLY got it, that I ended up throwing it out. And it was after 10 p.m. when we left the restarant, and I was still hungry because all I ate was a couple bites of salad and a few pieces of onion mum. I was too upset to even stop at anywhere else to get me anything to eat.
So, I told my co-worker, I am going to Yesterday because I know that is where he is. I am going to comfront him because I am extremly upset about this. I begged her to come with me. So, we take my car and we get halfway there, and my cell phone starts ringing. And it is him. I answer it and he starts apologizing. Saying he was sorry but he fell asleep. I know I shouldn't have, but I forgave him. Should of known he was probably lying. I told him I was going out to Yesterdays. He said he was headed there now and would meet me there. So, he shows up, and my co-worker decideds to leave. So, I give her the keys to my car to drive back home. I told her I would have him drop me off at her house when the night was over. He proceeds to buy me very strong drinks all night. And remember I was basically on an empty stomach. I know nobody was pouring them down my throat, but I drank them anyway. I was very nervous and was trying to loosen up. I should of know he was purposely trying to get me drunk. We ended up dancing the rest of the night. But, some of the night is very foggy to me. I was stupid enough to agree to leave with him instead of having him drop me back off at my co-workers house and let that be the end of it. And I was very stupid to let him drive my car knowing he was drunk. To make a long story short, we ended up at his boss parents home. I was pretty out of it and things went to the point that I did not want it to go. The next morning I was sober but very hung over. And I told him that what happened last night was a mistake and it should of not went that far. We started talking about going to the movies that night and I thought we would start fresh. And forget the night before even happened. He had to drive my car back to my co-workers because we were pretty far away from her house. And I did not have the foggiest idea how to get back. He had his boss follow us and he rode back with him. He said call me tonight so I can know what time the movie starts. So, I drive back home, grab some food on the way, take a shower, and take a long nap. I find out the movie starts at 8 p.m. So, I call him around 6 to tell him. No answer. I try back around 6:30. No answer. I got really upset once again and said to myself that he is doing the same thing to me as the night before. I never did hear back from him that evening, so I went to bed. Around 2 a.m. my cell phone starts ringing. I saw that it was him on the caller I.D. and refused to pick up. Any guy that calls a girl at 2 a.m. is just looking for a booty call. I would have to be stupid to answer that call especially after he once again stood me up for our movie date. I knew he just got out of the club, was drunk and looking to get laid. He would not stop calling, so I had to put my ringer on silent just so I could go back to sleep. I woke up Sunday morning and saw that I had 15 missed calls. All from him. From 2:00 a.m. until 3:30 that morning. Today is Wednesday going into Thursday and I have not heard from him since. Sorry this is so long. But, what do you guys make of this? I don't get it because he seemed so nice over the phone. And I am really not that type of girl, I made a HUGE drunken mistake. It was the first time I been with a guy in that way in 10 months since my last boyfriend and I broke up. We broke up because he was cheating on me. I don't understand what it is what guys! The older you get, the harder it is! Look my picture in the gallery, I am not saying I am all that, but I am not that bad! I am a really nice person, too nice is my problem! I give up! I will be 30 in exactly 5 months and almost all my friends are now married but me. Why do I keep attracting jerks and what do you think was the reason this guy treated me this way? Any advice? Just no mean comments please, because it has been a very rough week. And I am very depressed about what happened.
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I feel so sorry for your wife 
