Cruel bosses-my story
Posted: Wed Jun 22, 2005 9:00 pm
What is the cruelest boss you ever had to deal with? I would like to tell my story. It is something that has been eating away at me for a long time. I had this boss at work who was really cruel to me. She would yell at me all the time. I busted my butt to please her. But, nothing ever did. She would still always find something to yell at me about or critizize me. She would talk behind my back and tell other co-workers how much she hated me. And wanted to give me my walking papers. But, she never could find grounds to really fire me. I worked as hard as I could. I rarely ever called in and was never late.
The only thing that kept me from telling her off is the fear of getting fired. I tried finding another job, but had no luck. So, I was stuck. I could not quit or take a chance of being fired. Because I can not be unemployed. I have a car note and other bills to pay. The only thing my parents provide me is a roof over my head and food. Anyway, she was so cruel to me that she had me crying almost every day. Sometimes where I had to excuse myself off the sales floor because I was crying so hard. She would humiliate me in front of other co-workers and customers. I had to go to the doctors and get on Lexapro. I had severe depression, anxiety and was sucidal.
Everytime I would try to ask for a day off, she would schedule me anyway. I would only ask off if I really needed it. I mean, my whole life does not revolve around the store. One time I was serving in my best friend's wedding. And she refused to let me have off! I was forced to call in. And boy, did she holler at me when I came back to work that Monday. We really got into it.
Anyway, I complained to the store manager about how she was treating me several times. I am white and she is black. I thought that was why. But she even treated some black people just as bad. He did not do a thing about it. So, I prayed about it. And she got transferred to another area of the store! So, I don't deal with her anymore. She is no longer my boss. And I just flat out pretend she does not even exist. So, things finally started looking up about 3 months ago. Anyone else got any boss related stories to share with me? I would love to hear them!
The only thing that kept me from telling her off is the fear of getting fired. I tried finding another job, but had no luck. So, I was stuck. I could not quit or take a chance of being fired. Because I can not be unemployed. I have a car note and other bills to pay. The only thing my parents provide me is a roof over my head and food. Anyway, she was so cruel to me that she had me crying almost every day. Sometimes where I had to excuse myself off the sales floor because I was crying so hard. She would humiliate me in front of other co-workers and customers. I had to go to the doctors and get on Lexapro. I had severe depression, anxiety and was sucidal.
Everytime I would try to ask for a day off, she would schedule me anyway. I would only ask off if I really needed it. I mean, my whole life does not revolve around the store. One time I was serving in my best friend's wedding. And she refused to let me have off! I was forced to call in. And boy, did she holler at me when I came back to work that Monday. We really got into it.
Anyway, I complained to the store manager about how she was treating me several times. I am white and she is black. I thought that was why. But she even treated some black people just as bad. He did not do a thing about it. So, I prayed about it. And she got transferred to another area of the store! So, I don't deal with her anymore. She is no longer my boss. And I just flat out pretend she does not even exist. So, things finally started looking up about 3 months ago. Anyone else got any boss related stories to share with me? I would love to hear them!