Talking and Listening Online.
Posted: Wed Jun 04, 2003 10:17 pm
I met today with the GM of two of our offices (no, we didn't end up at Hooters this time), and it was time well spent.
Enchiladas were the order of the day for lunch, but three different times during the meal he reminded me how much he appreciated the chance to talk with me, and for me to listen to him, about the challenges he's faced with....at work, and in his personal life.
"Let's do this again, Steve. Sooner than later. I need to do this more often."
"We both do," I said.
One of the reasons message boards are so popular too is that they give you a chance to say what's on your mind, to express yourself, and actually get a response. The appeal is in the ability to talk and be heard. Not just heard, but actually be listened to.
It's sad to think that some really good people have good things to say...and there is no one to listen. These boards provide that opportunity.
Kathy and I talk a lot sometimes...about any and every topic from kids to money to politics to decorating the home. And everything in between. Our relationship is a good one. After 32 years, sometimes we even hear what the other one says!!!
Still...I enjoy the company of others both in person and here online who need a little encouragement or conversation. It fills a void that exists for me, and I like it.
I'd surely miss it (and you) if it wasn't there. Would you miss these connections online, or would you just find other ways to fill the need?
Enchiladas were the order of the day for lunch, but three different times during the meal he reminded me how much he appreciated the chance to talk with me, and for me to listen to him, about the challenges he's faced with....at work, and in his personal life.
"Let's do this again, Steve. Sooner than later. I need to do this more often."
"We both do," I said.
One of the reasons message boards are so popular too is that they give you a chance to say what's on your mind, to express yourself, and actually get a response. The appeal is in the ability to talk and be heard. Not just heard, but actually be listened to.
It's sad to think that some really good people have good things to say...and there is no one to listen. These boards provide that opportunity.
Kathy and I talk a lot sometimes...about any and every topic from kids to money to politics to decorating the home. And everything in between. Our relationship is a good one. After 32 years, sometimes we even hear what the other one says!!!
Still...I enjoy the company of others both in person and here online who need a little encouragement or conversation. It fills a void that exists for me, and I like it.
I'd surely miss it (and you) if it wasn't there. Would you miss these connections online, or would you just find other ways to fill the need?