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Couple Accused In Child Caging Want Kids Back!

#1 Postby Skywatch_NC » Wed Jan 04, 2006 2:32 pm

UNBELIEVABLE!!!! :grrr: :grrr:

Couple Accused In Child Caging Want Kids Back

POSTED: 1:56 pm EST January 4, 2006
UPDATED: 2:05 pm EST January 4, 2006

WAKEMAN, Ohio -- A couple accused of abusing their 11 adopted special-needs children by making them sleep in cages defended their actions but said they'd be willing to give up the enclosures to get the children back.

Michael and Sharen Gravelle said they would be more lenient and would send the home-schooled children, who have a host of health and behavioral problems, to public school.

"I will do whatever is necessary to get our children home," Michael Gravelle told The (Cleveland) Plain Dealer in Tuesday's editions.

A judge ruled Dec. 22 during a custody hearing that making the children sleep in wooden cages without pillows or mattresses constituted abuse. The judge also decided to keep the children, ages 1 to 15, in foster care.

The Gravelles defended their initial decision to make some of the children sleep in the cages. They said the enclosures were necessary to keep the children from harming themselves or one another.

"We did it for their safety," Michael Gravelle said. "Those were the final products of everything we did."

The children have problems such as fetal alcohol syndrome and a disorder that involves eating dirt.

The Gravelles have not been charged with a crime. Prosecutor Russ Leffler said he plans to go to a grand jury to pursue criminal charges this month.

The Gravelles could regain custody, with some restrictions, after a Jan. 18 hearing.

"I use my faith," the father said. "We have been knocked down, not destroyed."

http://www.wral.com/news/5842748/detail.html

Copyright 2006 by The Associated Press.
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#2 Postby alicia-w » Wed Jan 04, 2006 4:19 pm

didnt anyone else see the Doris Day movie, Please Dont Eat the Daisies?

She kept a kid in a cage.....
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#3 Postby GalvestonDuck » Wed Jan 04, 2006 4:24 pm

alicia-w wrote:didnt anyone else see the Doris Day movie, Please Dont Eat the Daisies?

She kept a kid in a cage.....


For eating daisies?

I know why the caged kid...oh, nevermind. :lol:
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#4 Postby TexasStooge » Wed Jan 04, 2006 5:41 pm

Unbelieveable!! :x Keeping kids locked up in cages is a sure sign of parent snot wanting to do with them. Now, the parents want them back.
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#5 Postby Terrell » Wed Jan 04, 2006 7:13 pm

People who would put their children in cages really should consider not having any more children (and give up the ones they have). These people should NOT get their children back, and should face charges.
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#6 Postby Skywatch_NC » Wed Jan 04, 2006 7:35 pm

alicia-w wrote:didnt anyone else see the Doris Day movie, Please Dont Eat the Daisies?

She kept a kid in a cage.....


Only difference is...this is real life.
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#7 Postby Miss Mary » Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:35 pm

These parents have wanted the kids back from the get-go. Proclaiming they loved their children!

I remember that movie and now that you mention it, I do recall seeing a cage but wasn't it more like the old fashioned wooden, square play pens but with a top on it? Those kids were out of control too (in the movie). Doris Day plops the kid in it and gets dressed for dinner, putting on her makeup. Back then everyone used play pens I guess. I only used them was for a shower or to cook dinner, and even then I tried putting my child in her high chair, with a sippy cup and cheerio's. We talked the entire time I was cooking.

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#8 Postby Miss Mary » Tue Mar 21, 2006 7:46 pm

Update - these kids will now receive new homes. Never to return to these so called parents again.

Read on:

http://news.cincypost.com/apps/pbcs.dll ... /603210353

'Caged kids' to get new homes

By John Seewer
Associated Press

NORWALK - The adoptive parents accused of forcing their 11 special-needs children to sleep in cages say they took care of kids that nobody else wanted.

Now a county child welfare agency must find others willing to take the children into new homes after a judge Monday stripped the couple of custody of the youngsters.

Huron County Juvenile Judge Timothy Cardwell awarded custody of the 11 children to the county, saying that allowing them to return to Michael and Sharen Gravelle would be a threat to the children's safety.

The county put the children in foster care last fall after a social worker found the cages, which the Gravelles said were necessary to protect the youngsters, who suffered from psychological and behavioral problems.

Cardwell already had ruled the Gravelles had abused the children, and he said evidence showed there was a good chance they would repeat the behavior. The couple have denied abusing the children, ages 2 to 15, and have pleaded not guilty to charges including child endangerment in a separate criminal case.

The children's guardian, Margaret Kern, said taking the children away from the Gravelles will give them a second chance at a normal life.

"They're really great kids. They're normal everyday kids, but they didn't have a chance because of the isolation," Kern said. "They're ready to move on."

The children now are spread among several foster homes.

The judge ordered 10 of the children placed in the permanent custody of the Huron County Department of Job and Family Services. The 11th child, a 2-year-old girl, was placed in temporary custody with the department because the Illinois adoption agency that placed her with the Gravelles has asked that she be returned.

"There's no question that children should not remain in abusive backgrounds," said Gloria Houchman, a spokeswoman for the National Adoption Center in Philadelphia.

"But a change in their environment will affect them also. They're going to need counseling."

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services defines special needs to include youngsters with medical, mental or emotional problems and children who are older or from ethnic or racial minorities. The agency said 80 percent to 90 percent of such adoptions are successful.

"Thirty years ago nobody thought these children were adoptable," Houchman said. "There are families out there that do want them."

The Gravelles' attorney, Kenneth Myers, said he will appeal the judge's ruling this week and try to stop any adoptions from taking place until that appeal is heard.

The judge said a history of sex abuse allegations against the father was a key reason he found the Gravelles unfit.

Cardwell wrote that his decision was influenced by testimony from Michael Gravelle's biological children, Jenna and Jesse Gravelle, who said their father inappropriately touched Jenna when she was a minor.

Michael Gravelle denies that.
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#9 Postby SouthFloridawx » Tue Mar 21, 2006 8:46 pm

oh yeah sure you gonna get the kids back you morons...
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#10 Postby tropicana » Tue Mar 21, 2006 9:18 pm

Those aren't parents..those are Animals in parent's disguise. This world is sooo strange.

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