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I have to ask this because it has been boggling my mind for awhile. This is the reason I have stayed single for awhile now. It seems like every single guy I meet tries to get me to sleep with them on the first date. Don't worry, I am not that type of girl. But, then, I never hear from them again anyway. Do guys purposely try to see if a girl will go that far on the first date just to see if they are easy? Because I don't get it. Why don't they have guys out there that will totally respect a woman ? And just take her out to dinner and a movie, without begging her to come home with him? I fixing to give up on the dating scene if it is always going to be like this!

cajungal wrote:I have to ask this because it has been boggling my mind for awhile. This is the reason I have stayed single for awhile now. It seems like every single guy I meet tries to get me to sleep with them on the first date. Don't worry, I am not that type of girl. But, then, I never hear from them again anyway. Do guys purposely try to see if a girl will go that far on the first date just to see if they are easy? Because I don't get it. Why don't they have guys out there that will totally respect a woman ? And just take her out to dinner and a movie, without begging her to come home with him? I fixing to give up on the dating scene if it is always going to be like this!

Hmmm...Well sleeping with the girl on the first date is a bonus..They usually didn't end up a long relationship...But I have been married now for 15 years with a girl that I did sleep with on the first date...But I have never thought of it as a test...Just find it more comfortable in a relationship to get sleep thing over with then I can concentrate on the dinner movie thing..

cajungal wrote:I have to ask this because it has been boggling my mind for awhile. This is the reason I have stayed single for awhile now. It seems like every single guy I meet tries to get me to sleep with them on the first date. Don't worry, I am not that type of girl. But, then, I never hear from them again anyway. Do guys purposely try to see if a girl will go that far on the first date just to see if they are easy? Because I don't get it. Why don't they have guys out there that will totally respect a woman ? And just take her out to dinner and a movie, without begging her to come home with him? I fixing to give up on the dating scene if it is always going to be like this!

Okay, I consider myself experienced in this topic, because when I was younger, I always ******* the girl on the first date. I just kissed them softly in a certain and they were all mine. Now, guys do this because they want to see if they are that good in ******** with the girl on the first date. Who cares if they are easy. The true test for a guy is to see if they can continue the streak with this girl. I always went until I would hit 4x and then cut it off. I would then move on to the next. Anyways, my ways have changed, but that is your answer.

[quote="wxcrazytwoOkay, I consider myself experienced in this topic, because when I was younger, I always bagged the girl on the first date. [/quote]

I'm not one who takes offense easily, but that has to be one of the most offensive terms I have ever seen.

JenBayles wrote:[

Didn't mean to be offensive, I did not know what other word to use without sounding like "dog." If I used the wrong word, the I am sorry. If I would have slept with that to me sounds even dirtier. I thought of the word "bagged" because of sixteen candles part.

Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

lol - sure you do Alex!! So exactly how did that baby come about

sunny wrote:

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

lol - sure you do Alex!! So exactly how did that baby come about

sunny wrote:

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

lol - sure you do Alex!! So exactly how did that baby come about

Well, in my lingo NO means YES and YES, YES, YES you get the picture.

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

lol - sure you do Alex!! So exactly how did that baby come about

Well, in my lingo NO means YES and YES, YES, YES you get the picture.

You low-life dog Alex, and I mean this with the most heart-felt affection, if you were my husband I'd have to kill you in your sleep

sunny wrote:

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:

wxcrazytwo wrote:

sunny wrote:Trust me cajungal, you are not the first woman this has happened to and you won't be the last. For my part, those kind of men are not worth my time or effort.

Like I tell my wife "NO"

lol - sure you do Alex!! So exactly how did that baby come about

Well, in my lingo NO means YES and YES, YES, YES you get the picture.

You low-life dog Alex, and I mean this with the most heart-felt affection, if you were my husband I'd have to kill you in your sleep

I'm sorry, but I cannot help stop laughing.

Do guys purposely try to see if a girl will go that far on the first date just to see if they are easy?

Guys just want to get laid. Period. The end. If you hold out, they might get around to liking you for you and not just the prospect of getting laid by you. If they don't get around to liking you for you while you're holding out, then they weren't worth it in the long run, yay you, too bad for them.


Try and think of it this way: for every goober that doesn't work out, you're one step closer to the one who will.

wxcrazytwo wrote:

cajungal wrote:I have to ask this because it has been boggling my mind for awhile. This is the reason I have stayed single for awhile now. It seems like every single guy I meet tries to get me to sleep with them on the first date. Don't worry, I am not that type of girl. But, then, I never hear from them again anyway. Do guys purposely try to see if a girl will go that far on the first date just to see if they are easy? Because I don't get it. Why don't they have guys out there that will totally respect a woman ? And just take her out to dinner and a movie, without begging her to come home with him? I fixing to give up on the dating scene if it is always going to be like this!

Okay, I consider myself experienced in this topic, because when I was younger, I always ******* the girl on the first date. I just kissed them softly in a certain and they were all mine. Now, guys do this because they want to see if they are that good in ******** with the girl on the first date. Who cares if they are easy. The true test for a guy is to see if they can continue the streak with this girl. I always went until I would hit 4x and then cut it off. I would then move on to the next. Anyways, my ways have changed, but that is your answer.

I would never have thought this way.....shame on you crazy!! Actually I think all guys go thru this phase in life...some more than others right crazy!! but ladies you deserve all the respect in the world....just tell these dudes to move along!!

fwbbreeze

It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.

Most of us go through a "swoing oru wild oats" phase. I managed to score with my share of girls on or even before the first date, especially in college, but honestly I wouldn't have pursued a long term relationship with any of them. My "wild oats" days came to a crashing halt, though, when I met my wife. I truly met my match that day.

i can think of one occasion where I didnt call the guy back after a chance horizontal collision. He wasnt that memorable and when he confronted me about what happened, i told him so.

it can go both ways.

alicia-w wrote:i can think of one occasion where I didnt call the guy back after a chance horizontal collision. He wasnt that memorable and when he confronted me about what happened, i told him so.

it can go both ways.

Alicia, if it wasn't that memorable, then why did you mention it in your example.

what was memorable was watching him squirm when i didnt find him worthy of a repeat performance (or lack thereof)....

Stratosphere747 wrote:It tells you the character of a "man" who seeks to think with only one portion of his anatomy on any first date. I'll exclude the youth as the majority don't realize as of yet that there are other portions of their brain to be used.

AMEN!