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Parents not allowed to attend son's funeral

Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 3:43 pm
by alicia-w
A funeral was held Thursday for Firas Eiso, the young man who was killed execution-style at an El Cajon liquor store on March 1.

The service was delayed so the victim's parents could attend, but they were denied entry into the U.S.

The parents are still in Iraq because they were refused travel visas by the U.S. Embassy in Jordan.

Still, many other family members and friends came to St. Peter Chaldean Catholic Church for the funeral.


Eiso was killed at the Granada Liquor Store two weeks ago, along with the daughter of the store's owners, Heather Mattia, who was buried last week.

As with the first funeral, hundreds turned out to pay respects.

Dozens of mourners escorted the casket into the church.

The tight-knit community showed its love and respect for a young man who just came to this country just six months ago.

"He used to live with me, and now he's gone. It's been really hard. We're thankful for everyone coming over," said Eiso's cousin Saher Barka.

It was a traditional Chaldean service with just a few words spoken in English.

Eiso and Mattia were executed by armed robbers two weeks ago.

Surveillance cameras caught the crime, but the gunmen remain at large even with a $100,000 reward being offered.

"It's the close of a chapter, not the close of the book. Not until we get the killer who committed this heinous act," siad Eiso's friend Auday Arabo.

There is grief for the victims but another emotion, too. There is disappointment that Eiso's parents couldn't be at the funeral.

"The whole community is very upset. It was handled wrong by the U.S. Consulate," said mourner Tony Ashana.

"He decided not to grant a visa to the parents because he was worried they wouldn't come back," said mourner Sami Jihad.

"It's really hurt us and has made a difficult situation harder. I hope someday his parents can come see his grave," said Eiso's cousin David Barka.

There are still flowers, pictures and candles at the storefront in memory of Eiso and Mattia.

And the significant reward offered for information about their killers could grow even larger.


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Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 5:34 pm
by TexasStooge
Not letting parents attend their child's funeral? That's messed up.

Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 5:37 pm
by vbhoutex
TexasStooge wrote:Not letting parents attend their child's funeral? That's messed up.


NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS WITH FEW EXCEPTIONS!!!!

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 11:05 am
by beachbum_al
That is horrible. The parents are already going through so much and have this happen.

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 5:00 pm
by Hurricaneman
That is total rubbish for the parents and I think the parents should sue

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 5:51 pm
by greeng13
Hurricaneman wrote:That is total rubbish for the parents and I think the parents should sue


for what? yes it is a horrible thing and i agree that they probably should have gotten visas...but a lawsuit???? c'mon they could have had the body sent to their country.

i as a taxpayer would not want to pay for this lawsuit. it is not their right to be here not being citizens of this country. was their son a citizen of this country? and they would be suing who? the US gov't....won't get very far and there are already too many frivilous lawsuits...

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:01 pm
by Janice
I agree with Green. There is much more here than we know. Why did not the parents have their son shipped home. I am sure there is much more here than we know.

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 8:13 pm
by HurricaneHunter914
I wonder how the people who told them that would feel if they weren't allowed to attend their child's funeral. :grr:

Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 8:24 pm
by greeng13
probably horrible would be my guess. but there must be something more.

i agree it stinks!!!! and i truly feel horrible for the parents myself.

bureaucracy at its best right? but the world is a different place after 9/11.

my argument before was that a LAWSUIT was/is the last thing needed....there is no case!

Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 8:00 am
by alicia-w
do you have any idea what's involved in shipping a body and overseas at that? it's exorbitantly expensive and there are all kinds of documents required. this is just wrong that the embassy wouldnt give those folks a visa to attend the funeral.