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For The Guys Only
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 8:23 am
by Janice
Ok, guys, fess up.
When you are hitting the scene to meet a girl, what are some turn-offs.
When you sit down for the first time to chat, is there one particular thing that a girl says that will turn you off immediately?
Hi..... where do you work and how much money do you make?

Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 11:18 am
by coriolis
Well, not that I'm in that scene any more, but.
"How much money do you make" would be VERY inappropriate. I wouldn't answer that. I'd reply, "why do you ask?" My guard would be up after that.
Other turn offs
1. Talks incessently about nothing.
2. Talks about herself the whole time.
3. Talks about her friends too much.
4. Talks about superficial things.
5. Uses the word "I" in every sentence.
As you can see, talking too much is the #1 way to turn me off. Every second doesn't have to be filled with talking.
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 11:25 am
by Regit
As far as saying things, it would basically be anything annoying, which is a wide array of things. The biggest turn off period, would be lighting up a cigarette.
Luckily, there's no "scene" for me anymore.

Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 11:30 am
by TexasStooge
Regit wrote:The biggest turn off period, would be lighting up a cigarette.
Same here, as well as drinking alcohol.
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 11:43 am
by Regit
TexasStooge wrote:Regit wrote:The biggest turn off period, would be lighting up a cigarette.
Same here, as well as drinking alcohol.
Ditto. I could handle a glass of wine, but drinking like a bottomless pit would be a huge turn off.
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 11:43 am
by Janice
And bringing in excess baggage, always complaining about everything. Life has been so hard on me.....

Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 1:06 pm
by Josephine96
<<<Janices' last 1 sounds eerily familiar lol...
Hmm.. lets see.. biggest turn off.. I'm a big appearance person, and 1 of my biggest turn offs is if a girl dresses like a well.. not dignifed human being lol {inesert derogatory word here lol}..
I just hate that.. I'd rather see someone who cares about their appearance.. if that makes any sense
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 1:07 pm
by JonathanBelles
drugs...
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 1:08 pm
by Josephine96
I forgot to mention the drug/alcohol thing too lol..
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 3:35 pm
by TexasStooge
Another big turnoff (and yes, this happens in Jr. High/Middle and High Schools) is when a stupid question like "Are you gay?" is asked.
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 3:36 pm
by Josephine96
LOL Stooge.. I remember that
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 6:44 pm
by Tstormwatcher
Lighting a cigarette
Talking about ex's on first date
Having lots of Makeup on.
Drinking too much