Wanted to let ya guys know I'm very happy! :)

Josephine96 · #21 Postby **Josephine96** » Tue May 30, 2006 9:50 pm

Slight issue or perhaps just needing time 2 herself..? She left me a message not to call her tonight because she wanted to be by herself..

anyway... I actually need some time to myself too.. so this does work out lol.. I'm kinda worried about her though

TexasStooge · #22 Postby **TexasStooge** » Tue May 30, 2006 10:16 pm

Josephine96 wrote:Slight issue or perhaps just needing time 2 herself..? She left me a message not to call her tonight because she wanted to be by herself..

anyway... I actually need some time to myself too.. so this does work out lol.. I'm kinda worried about her though

I'm sure things will be back to normal tomorrow, like you said, it's best if you let her be for tonight.

Josephine96 · #23 Postby **Josephine96** » Tue May 30, 2006 10:40 pm

She actually called me on my lunch and told me she was very upset. She's having issues with her ex.. was supposed to have a job interview 2morrow but her comps' printer is broke so she can't print her resume. Plus.. god knows what else

It just sickens me sometimes that I can only be a voice instead of a superman and try to help her out of trouble..

Janice · #24 Postby **Janice** » Wed May 31, 2006 7:35 am

It is always important to give her space. Do not get too close when she is telling you in certain terms to back off a little at this point. She is telling you she has problems so just let her deal with those first and let her know you will be there when she is ready.
Nothing worse than someone in your face, etc. when they have problems.

Give her some time and space.

HurricaneGirl · #25 Postby **HurricaneGirl** » Wed May 31, 2006 8:45 am

Hurray for John! 8-)

Josephine96 · #26 Postby **Josephine96** » Wed May 31, 2006 9:22 am

Ok Janice, that's exactly what I did.. and I'll call her later and see if she's doing any better.. I don't wanna make any stupid mistakes early to possibly have her suddenly decide.. "what am I doing, I don't wanna be with him" lol..

I'm actually a little upset at myself today. I have a big mouth and everyone at wal mart has a big mouth lol.. I'm being teased or being advised when I don't even ask for it. I know that's partly my fault cause I should have never said nothing. But I'm excited and couldn't help it lol..

I'll just try to be a little more defensive from now on. Ok.. {takes deep breath} freaking out session over lol..

#27 Postby **alicia-w** » Wed May 31, 2006 8:15 pm

i think i would strongly recommend that you keep your private life private. one would think you might remember that after a similar episode.

nholley · #28 Postby **nholley** » Wed May 31, 2006 8:29 pm

alicia-w wrote:i think i would strongly recommend that you keep your private life private. one would think you might remember that after a similar episode.

Great advice. It is one thing to be excited about a possible relationship but don't blow it by spreading your joy all over the place.

Ex's can throw a spanner in many works....just make sure she knows you are there for her and let her come to you in her own time.

Miss Mary · #29 Postby **Miss Mary** » Wed May 31, 2006 9:56 pm

Ditto on keeping your private life private. People love to gossip. Be careful what you say John. One thing I've learned to do is not repeat something another person told me to keep private. And actually I'd prefer they not even tell me such personal stuff (past relationships!).

I do have a friend who is just exhausting. What does she do that is trying? She asks tons of questions! We actually call her the Question Queen. She's not nosy, she's just interested in other people. And she doesn't ask very personal questions, more or less what's new with you. If you say you're shopping for a new vacuum (bought one tonight), she wants to talk about vacuums! For 15 minutes. Exhausting but no one is going to get their feelings hurt talking about a Dirt Devil. LOL

But my point is she rarely tells me personal things about her or her family. You have to pry info out of her!

Don't know where that tangent came from. Sorry. My point is you're young yet and just entering the working world. Just be careful what you share about yourself (at work)!

Mary

Josephine96 · #30 Postby **Josephine96** » Wed May 31, 2006 10:36 pm

I have adapted a policy for myself starting tonight.. It's "Don't ask because I'm not tellin" lol.. and I will try VERY HARD to keep that promise.. I like and care about Toni too much and she cares about me too much for me to blow the relationship based on a stupid mistake..

Janice · #31 Postby **Janice** » Wed May 31, 2006 10:55 pm

Good luck to the two of you, hope things work out well for you both.

Josephine96 · #32 Postby **Josephine96** » Thu Jun 01, 2006 11:13 am

Thank you Janice.. we shall see what happens..

Wanted to let ya guys know I'm very happy! :)

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