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Nigerian advises against 86 wives & now faces death

#1 Postby HURAKAN » Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:50 am

Nigerian advises against 86 wives
By Andrew Walker
BBC News, Bida, Nigeria

Nigerian Mohammed Bello Abubakar, 84, has advised other men not to follow his example and marry 86 women.

The former teacher and Muslim preacher, who lives in Niger State with his wives and at least 170 children, says he is able to cope only with the help of God.

"A man with 10 wives would collapse and die, but my own power is given by Allah. That is why I have been able to control 86 of them," he told the BBC.

He says his wives have sought him out because of his reputation as a healer.

"I don't go looking for them, they come to me. I will consider the fact that God has asked me to do it and I will just marry them."

But such claims have alienated the Islamic authorities in Nigeria, who have branded his family a cult.

When you marry a man with 86 wives you know he knows how to look after them
Wife Ganiat Bello Abubakar

Most Muslim scholars agree that a man is allowed to have four wives, as long as he can treat them equally.

But Mr Bello Abubakar says there is no punishment stated in the Koran for having more than four wives.

"To my understanding the Koran does not place a limit and it is up to what your own power, your own endowment and ability allows," he says.

"God did not say what the punishment should be for a man who has more than four wives, but he was specific about the punishment for fornication and adultery."

'Order from God'

As Mr Bello Abubakar emerged from his compound to speak to the BBC, his wives and children broke out into a praise song.

Most of his wives are less than a quarter of his age - and many are younger than some of his own children.

The wives the BBC spoke to say they met Mr Bello Abubakar when they went to him to seek help for various illnesses, which they say he cured.

"As soon as I met him the headache was gone," says Sharifat Bello Abubakar, who was 25 at the time and Mr Bello Abubakar 74.

"God told me it was time to be his wife. Praise be to God I am his wife now."

Ganiat Mohammed Bello has been married to the man everyone calls "Baba" for 20 years.

When she was in secondary school her mother took her for a consultation with Mr Bello Abubakar and he proposed afterwards.

"I said I couldn't marry an older man, but he said it was directly an order from God," she says.

She married another man but they divorced and she returned to Mr Bello Abubakar.

"I am now the happiest woman on earth. When you marry a man with 86 wives you know he knows how to look after them," she said.

No work

Mr Bello Abubakar and his wives do not work and he has no visible means of supporting such a large family.

He refuses to say how he makes enough money to pay for the huge cost of feeding and clothing so many people.

Every mealtime they cook three 12kg bags of rice which all adds up to $915 (£457) every day.

"It's all from God," he says.

Other residents of Bida, the village where he lives in the northern Nigerian state, say they do not know how he supports the family.

According to one of his wives, Mr Bello Abubakar sometimes asks his children to go and beg for 200 naira ($1.69, £0.87), which if they all did so would bring in about $290 (£149).

Most of his wives live in a squalid, unfinished house in Bida; others live in his house in Lagos, Nigeria's commercial capital.

He refuses to allow any of his family or other devotees to take medicine and says he does not believe that malaria exists.

"As you sit here if you have any illness I can see it and just remove it," he says.

But not everyone can be cured and one of his wives, Hafsat Bello Mohammed, says two of her children have died.

"They were sick and we told God and God said their time has come."

She says that most of the wives see Mr Bello Abubakar as next in line from the Prophet Muhammad.

Indeed, he claims the Prophet Muhammad speaks to him personally and gives detailed descriptions of his experiences.

It is a serious claim for a Muslim to make.

"This is heresy, he is a heretic," says Ustaz Abubakar Siddique, an imam of Abuja's Central Mosque.
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#2 Postby coriolis » Sat Aug 09, 2008 3:50 pm

One wife is definitely enough.
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#3 Postby Category 5 » Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:00 pm

A mormon would call him crazy. :eek:
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#4 Postby CajunMama » Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:02 pm

Category 5 wrote:A mormon would call him crazy. :eek:


nah, they'd be jealous! :lol:
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#5 Postby JonathanBelles » Sat Aug 09, 2008 4:34 pm

OMG! Never. he has more wives than years.
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#6 Postby Brent » Sat Aug 09, 2008 6:06 pm

170 kids??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
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#7 Postby azsnowman » Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:29 pm

LOL @ Ed....I was gonna say ONE is TOO MANY :ggreen: :cheesy: :ggreen:
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Re: Nigerian advises against 86 wives

#8 Postby HurricaneBill » Thu Aug 14, 2008 3:49 am

Could you imagine 86 women yelling at you for leaving the seat up?
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Re: Nigerian advises against 86 wives

#9 Postby Ad Novoxium » Fri Aug 15, 2008 3:36 am

HurricaneBill wrote:Could you imagine 86 women yelling at you for leaving the seat up?

It'd be a non-issue for me. I always put the seat DOWN thank you very much. But...eighty six wifes and over a hundred children. Lord only knows how he lived with it. Seriously, cost overruns in a country whose key industry is oil scam emails.

Or is this the other Niger?
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#10 Postby HURAKAN » Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:29 am

Nigerian faces death for 86 wives

Nigeria's Islamic authority has told the man who has 86 wives to choose only four and repent within three days or else he will be sentenced to death.

The Jamatu Nasril Islam (JNI) passed their verdict on Mohammed Bello Abubakar, 84, according to Sharia law.

This comes two weeks after the Nigerian press and the BBC reported on the case.

Talking to the media then, Mr Abubakar challenged Muslim scholars, saying there is no punishment stated in the Koran for having more than four wives.

However, Mr Abubakar advised other men not to follow his example and marry 86 women.

No limit

The former teacher and Muslim preacher lives in Niger State with his wives and at least 170 children, and says he is able to cope only with the help of God.

"A man with 10 wives would collapse and die, but my own power is given by Allah. That is why I have been able to control 86 of them," he told the BBC.

Most Muslim scholars agree that a man is allowed to have four wives, as long as he can treat them equally.

But Mr Bello Abubakar told the BBC: "To my understanding the Koran does not place a limit and it is up to what your own power, your own endowment and ability allows.

"God did not say what the punishment should be for a man who has more than four wives, but he was specific about the punishment for fornication and adultery."

Niger is one of the Muslim majority states to have reintroduced Sharia punishments since 2000.

Several people have been sentenced to death for adultery by Sharia courts but none of these sentences have been carried out.
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#11 Postby CajunMama » Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:34 am

My dad had known a man from nigeria years ago. Gilbert, the man from nigeria, had i believe 2 wives and i forget how many children. He was always writing to my dad asking him for money. You'd think these men would forget about having many children (which was/is a status symbol over there) and figure out how many children and wives they could afford to support.
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Re: Nigerian advises against 86 wives & now faces death

#12 Postby captain east » Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:44 am

That's a lot of nagging, lol.
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#13 Postby Chacor » Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:46 pm

He has agreed to divorce 82 of them.
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#14 Postby HurricaneBill » Mon Sep 01, 2008 4:10 am

Chacor wrote:He has agreed to divorce 82 of them.


Imagine the alimony.....
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