I once again need a pick me up.. :(

[Josephine96]

hello Storm 2k family..

I need a pick me up.. I used to be doing so good.. Many people began to think my depression was just temporary.

Well.. I am going through another backslide and seem to be having trouble pulling myself up.

Cassie's situation has me in knots and a complete basketcase because I really don't hear too much, Graduation is coming and I am still having no luck finding a job, my motivation to actually go find a job has mysteriously vanished and I can't seem to get it back. Plus I just found out today, that the rehab center where Mom is may start taking her government checks away {which means I'll have very little money since Mom is trusting me with her money}

The scary part is.. I thought hearing that Mom's money could get taken away would be the spark to get my motivation back, but I think it really just added more fuel to my depressed fire..

Please pray for me.. and cheer me up a little.. I could use it.. I even went down to my school today so I could have a bit of privacy since hardly anyone is here on Fridays..

[stormraiser]

John, don't let this get you down. It comes to all of us, but it is a test and will pass. Keep your head up. Look for someone else to encourage. That's what I do and it helps me stop thinking about myself

[Josephine96]

Thank you Stormy.. I'll take your advice and see if I know anyone that needs to be encouraged.

Actually I do know 1 person that needs it lol.. But I haven't seen her in over a month so that doesn't help the situation lol

[Guest]

John, I know what your are going through. I would be writing a book if I got started to talk about the problem, so I will just leave it at that!

You will feel better by thinking positive.

[GalvestonDuck]

Forgive me for copying and pasting my own posts, but I'm simply going to offer up some the same things I offered to Joshua and Karan a while back. I'll just edit some things here and there.

I can tell you from years of experience -- don't stress it. Have faith, be strong, and let God have your problems. Of course, this doesn't mean lay back and expect something to magically happen because it won't. But take some time to relax, organize your thoughts, and find peace. If you pray, do it. Get some exercise, even if it's just to turn up the stereo and dance around to some upbeat tunes. That's one of the first things we always told someone involved in a major traumatic event (that didn't involve physical injury to them) to do, and it works for depression and stress. Also, skip on indulging in soft drinks or coffee if you regularly drink them. Caffeine doesn't help with stress and you'll save money if you just drink water. Keep studying and get plenty of sleep. Focus energy on your finals (you didn't think I'd let that slide, did ya? ). Take the time you need to relax in between studying, but not in a lazy, slothful kind of way. Don't forget your problems and concerns, but don't dwell on them to the point that you keep "living between your ears" (focusing on negativity that builds inside your mind and soul and plays over and over and over because you keeping imagining the bad "what-could-happen's" instead of the positive "what-God-will-guide-me-through's." Step outside once in a while and stay in contact with the sunshine, orange groves, and spring breeze (Dude,you live in central FL...sure, it's no Texas, but it's the next best thing. ). Stay in contact with friends (here and in real life) so that you don't get lonely and do the "living between your ears bit" even more. And keep the lines of communication open with God.

Hang in there, John! The Mighty Prayer Warriors are sending 'em up for ya. (((((((HUGS)))))))

[Josephine96]

Hey Duck..

The thing about exercise works wonders.. Remember.. I have my all night marathon next weekend! woo hoo.. lol

I'll probably be doing a lot of running or walking during those 18 hours because I know I have a lot of stress that needs to be burned..

That's definitely what I am looking forward too.. I'll be walking or running till my hearts' content

[vbhoutex]

John, don't let this get you down. It comes to all of us, but it is a test and will pass. Keep your head up. Look for someone else to encourage. That's what I do and it helps me stop thinking about myself

IT WORKS EVERY TIME!!!!! TRY IT YOU'LL LIKE IT!!!!!

AMEN DUCK!!!! AMEN!!!!

[Josephine96]

Well.. I'll be looking for people who need encouragement. I know Cassie does.. but of course.. I haven't seen her in a while.. lol

So.. I'll just keep my eyes open and be willing to encourage the person who needs it..

[sunnyday]

Ask God for help. He is in charge of everything and will take care of you!
Bless your heart; you have a lot on your plate. Just remember that every day is a new start with new blessings. I'm a mom with kids about your age, so if I can help in that respect, just pm me any time.

[Josephine96]

Thank you for that Sunny Day.. If I ever need someone to talk too.. I'll keep that in mind and contact you..