artist wrote:I have a question for those that honestly think that they would talk to us and just leave us alone.
Well there's the problem right there. This is a completely false characterization of the alternative to war. Start with a false premise and everything which follows is meaningless.
Have you ever met a mad man in your life? If you haven't then you wouldn't know that there are those that do not think rationally as most of us do. No manner of talking or withdrawing, will ever change their beliefs as they are delusional. They have in their minds what the perfect world is and they will not stop until they achieve their delusions.
I'll give you some examples:
Joseph Stalin was a bona-fide madman. He had iron control of a massive military including a substantial nuclear arsenal. And yet we managed to deal with him by means of negotiation and deterrence.
Khruschev wasn't a madman but his rhetoric ("We will bury you" - complete with banging his shoe on the podium at the UN) was at least as "mad" ad anything Ahmedinejad had ever said. He too had iron control of a massive military and a vast nuclear arsenal - yet we managed to deal with him by negotiation and deterrence.
The Soviet aims of world domination were far more serious and realistic than anything dreamed of in Persia or the Arab world today, yet we didn't allow ourselves to be panicked into foolish "preemptive" war to avert them.
EDIT: Additionally, unlike the above examples, Ahmedinejad doesn't really control anything in Iran - all the real power rests in the council of Mullahs.