#45 Postby Miss Mary » Thu Jun 12, 2003 7:42 am
Very interesting topic indeed! Steve, you had some good comments there. Shannon, I can understand where you're coming from too. I have 2 girls, as you all must know by now, that went thru the same Elem. In our school district when Nina started in 93, Whole Language Theory was implemented. Subjects flowed from one to the other, which was supposed to get the kids writing, writing, and writing some more. Inventive Spelling (putting a word down on paper the way you *think* it was spelled) was encouraged from K into First and Second Grades. By Third you were expected to turn it around by then, if you hadn't already - e.g. spelling cat as *cat* not kat. Well, Nina's Reading Light Bulb (as her First Grade teacher referred to it) came on near the end of First Grade. She was devouring books by then.....reading and writing all the time. We read all of the Little House and Anne of Green Gables' books together. We have very fond memories of those days. Alright compare Laura to Nina and Laura has always - repeat always - struggled. I curse the day she was allowed to spell words *inventively*. Ugh. I used to say she would have learned to spell and write well if she had been taught the way I was - phonics, by a very strict nun with a stick, rapped many, many times on the blackboard - but of course I'd never welcome that type of learning today. Laura's Reading Light Bulb didn't come on until 7th Grade, if you can believe that! Yes I highly credit her Reading teacher this past year for nurturing that love for reading. All thru Elem years she was in every Reading Recovery program offered, received extra help, etc. Summer school too. On vacations/trips both girls have gathered their car things - Sony walkmans, Gameboys, books, but Laura always wanted Comic Books - it's a book Moooooommmmm. That look I got. Meanwhile Nina's reading "Tuesday's with Morrie", for one example. You don't know how many times I've wondered what did I do wrong.......did I read more to Nina and skip Laura? Of course I should add Laura was diagnosed with ADD mid 6th Grade year. So that was the missing piece to the puzzle. She is well on her way now and is doing wonderfully, GPA was over 3.5. And oh, our school district has thrown out the Whole Language Theory/Inventive Spelling - Thank God I say!!!! Phonics is implemented again - as if they just realized hey this really does work! The old theory was to get the K'ers writing right away, not hung up on spelling a word correctly, for fear of punishment. Good theory, worked well for one of my kids, not the other!
To wrap up my experiences with 2 daughters, I'd say now Reading is of the utmost importance. IMHO, they must be reading by the start of K year. Laura wasn't and I clearly remember the day her K teacher said - oh, she'll pick it up in no time. Ha! That didn't quite work out well.......I'd recommend to anyone with children 2 - 4 1/2, read, read, and read some more to your kids.
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PS - I'd like to add that both my girls started K at the traditional age. Nina - 5.2 years of age by August. Laura, slightly older - 5.3 years. I never noticed this in Nina's class but by the time Laura hit First Grade I noticed over 50% of the students, if not 75%, were a full year older than she was. One girl I was reading with I thought for sure was gifted and the teacher said after a long sigh, no she's just a year older than your daughter. And so thru the years I've watched and observed. Laura's again the age she should be but among many students in ELO - extended learning opportunities. In other words, advanced classes. My theory, and just a mom-type one, I think grade levels are now teaching to the older students. And I swear I just didn't realize how prevalent it's become to start your child in K at age 6, or just about to turn 6. Laura would have struggled far less had she been older, in academics and social settings. I also clearly remember her pre-school teacher (after 2 full years) saying she was ready for K. Well, my opinion now is there is a huge gap between PreSchool and K curriculums. Both Administrations should sit down and compare notes. The Preschool teachers are all about fun and learning numbers/ABC's. Some sight words. K's all about knowing how to read already (even though the K teacher wasn't concerned Laura wasn't reading by then, if she had been she would have struggled less).
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