#420 Postby Miss Mary » Fri Jan 20, 2006 10:47 am
David - hang in there with your MIL. You sound like such a devoted SIL, it speaks volumes of your character. Of which, we know a little something about anyways......as I posted on your prayer request thread for her, having any surgery in the GI area is painful, it takes time for this area also to calm down. Lots of nerve endings, that don't like to be messed with. Did you know when they operate, they open you up and remove it all, yes, a doctor told me this, they just take all your organs out that they can, laying them on your stomach and work on the area that needs attending. Then they put you back together but they can't quite do it the way Mother Nature did. I swelled up like I was 7 months pregnant, my kids could not stop staring at my stomach. I walked around saying I wish I was just preggers.....that would have beat the severe, intense, all internal pain I had just walking, sitting in a chair, trying to turn over in bed, take a shower (bending down for the soap I dropped, yikes any movement brought severe shooting pains). In time it does pass, my pain left after 4 weeks. It was there every single day. I would pray as I went to sleep, please God let it be gone by morning. I'd wake up, swing my feet over the side of the bed, gingerly get up and there it was as if to say - I'm back. I was known to utter a few choice words back then. I could dull the pain with Tylenol, that was it but it was always there. I couldn't remain on strong pain killers (Percoset or Vicodin), b/c in time you can become addicted to them. I just had to muddle thru and I did. It was just not easy. So if your MIL's road to recovery seems to be taking a long time, trust me, this is normal, from what I was told. I also remember looking at my swollen stomach and wondering - did they put my spleen back where it should go? Silly thoughts go thru your mind. I lost so much weight in time, that I got down to a size 4, my stomach did flatten out, so everything did go back where it should have. That was comforting to know!
Well, I probably cleared the room with that little speech but your post brought it out of me. Took me back to almost 7 years ago! Hang in there. I'm praying still. Always.
Karan - thanks for your kind note, I will get the hang of driving and crying. LOL By the time she's a Senior huh? he he Well, by then she'll have her own car and I won't be doing the to and from drive. More tears alert!!!! Naw, I'll still visit, once a semester maybe.....
Jackie - nice to hear from you. So sorry to hear of your husband's job situation. I'll pray her finds a new job, very soon.
Mary
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