Theresa is a TWISTED LIAR! :((

[Skywatch_NC]

John,

This has to be one of your longest topics here ever! lol

Eric

[Josephine96]

It'll probably get a thread of the year nomination lol..

It's becoming the thread that just won't die..

[Rainband]

Good evening all.. While I am upset.. I am not completely teary eyed.. and despite what the sentence states above.. I'm still friends with her lol..

Here's a rundown of the afternoon..

I was on lunch when Theresa came in at 1.. I walked up to her.. she embraced me as she always does.. and I politely told her.. "See ya @ 5 for lunch.. I'll pick you up at your register if the Csm's haven't sent you" lol

Not even 5 minutes later.. the rumors started once again.. A cashier.. we'll call her J.. decides to come over and tell me.. "Theresa's heard what you've been bragging about all week and she thinks you have the wrong idea".. I just once again shrugged my shoulders and let it go.." It turns out J.. is probably the leader of the rumor cult.. I'll explain why in a sec lol..

Calm but nerve racking afternoon, hearing rumor after rumor.. I'll break down which rumors we're true and which weren't..

It is now almost 4pm ET.. Theresa gets sent to 1st break late.. I happen to catch her.. and decide to clear the air.. and I politely ask her.. "Before I take you to lunch.. on our "date".. I need to ask you.. Do I even have a chance..? her polite but blunt response was "Nope".. and she later re-iterated "I have a bf.. that's why"..

So I then said.. "I respectfully hate to say this.. but I can't go on this date with you then.. because I would not want.. and God would not want me to date a woman who is either married or seeing somebody"..

Oh how quickly that shut her up lol.. But it does NOT END THERE! She also insists to tell me.. "You probably got the wrong idea and I heard when I came in how much Nancy said you were excited about our "date".

So I respectfully told her.. "I do like you.. I really do care about you.. and I love you.. {as a friend} but.. If you and your bf break up.. Please don't come running!"..



With all due respect John. From what I read...didn't she just want to be your friend?? Thats what i am getting from all this.

[Josephine96]

LOL and that's what started it all.. what's with the boldness lol

[Rainband]

Just trying to figure out why you think she is a liar. When in your own words...you said she said you had the wrong idea.

[Josephine96]

LOL... so that's why you bolded it..

If all she wanted to do was be my friend.. she should have just easily told me NO to the date.. or she could have just said flat out that she had a bf...

She didn't have to drag me down that road last week.. I was excited.. Which explains why I may have been bragging.. All she had to do was say no..

[Rainband]

Maybe she didn't think it was d ate. friends have lunch too.

[Josephine96]

She's a "liar" because she gave me the wrong impression about our date.. All she had to do was say NO or tell me she had a bf.. and that would have ended it..

{thinks this threads gonna drag on till I'm about 30 lol}

[Josephine96]

BTW.. That was also part of the "rumor cult" started by cashier J.. J is not me lol

[Josephine96]

LOL granted yes they do..

[Rainband]

Like I said from what I have read. It was a lunch between friends.

[Josephine96]

May have been.. But I was attracted to her.. really liked her.. which is why I confronted her and called the whole "date" off.. Somebody was gonna get hurt during the whole mess..

{leaves the comp now.. watching the # of posts in this thread climbing is making me nauseated lol}

[sunny]

LOL... so that's why you bolded it..

If all she wanted to do was be my friend.. she should have just easily told me NO to the date.. or she could have just said flat out that she had a bf...

Whelp, gonna have to jump in here again. From the woman's point of view - I do have lunch with MALE FRIENDS from time to time. AS FRIENDS. I don't look at them as dates at all, just lunch with a friend, and I go to that lunch with the intent of paying for my meal, same as I would with a female friend. Given that I look at it as lunch with a friend, I don't feel the need to chime in with the fact that I am involved with someone prior to lunch, if that is the case at that particular point in time. With that being said, if during the course of lunch, I am asked on a date, I would then at that point tell them there was someone in my life.

[Josephine96]

{shakes head}

Maybe I'll try to let you guys know why I called the date off lol..

If you all remember.. I had developed some attraction to Ms. Teresa.. Well, I had found out she was already taken..

Thus.. I called it off.. Because I didn't wanna end up getting hurt or have her or her current bf get hurt

[sunny]

John, I'd like to ask a question. I don't mean to make you angry or anything, just something I am wondering about.

You've said you "developed" feeling for Teresa. Did you bother to find out before you decided to ask her out on a DATE if she was in fact involved with someone, or married for that fact?

[Josephine96]

This thread just isn't going to die is it lol..

I had no clue whether she was married, single, taken whatever.. what's the difference..

she agreed to the date.. She should have never agreed if she was taken.. because that's not exactly smart lol..

How come everyone at work has forgot all about it.. But HERE it continues to be beaten to death like a dead horse.. lol

If this story is suddenly gonna change and you guys are gonna turn me into the bad guy.. then I think I'll just get up and walk out of here.. Because no one around here.. {except for a select few} thinks of me as the bad guy in this situation. They all think of me as the "sweet kid who was excited about his date with a young lady and the young lady didn't even bother to tell him her status" lol

{wishes the thread would just die}

[Miss Mary]

Hey all - I think we should let this topic die or fade away. Let's just do what John asks of us. I will no longer reply John. I've said what I wanted to and I do wish you well, always.

Mary

[Josephine96]

Thank you Mary..

I'm not saying I can't stand anyone's opinion.. Because I enjoy hearing and I wanna know everybody's view..

But.. it's been completely forgotten at my job.. so let's try to let it fade away here too..

[Miss Mary]

But it is possible to discuss a topic to death. And we have. Let's put it rest.

But that's means you have to stop replying too John!!! LOL

So right now....no more replies - anyone! Thanks...

M.

[Josephine96]

LOL Mary true... I gotta stop on my end too.. {OMG 1 more reply to 100 lol}