Rollercoaster year. Request this to be locked.

[Audrey2Katrina]

I can't believe you're getting kicked out of your house over a harmless drug.

*SIGH*



A2K

[CajunMama]

This whole situation just doesn't make sense. I can't believe you're getting kicked out of your house over a harmless drug. You should perhaps report your father to Dept of Children & Families(if they have that in Canada, or something similar). Perhaps you can explain that your friend put it in your backpack, and have your friend verify this.

Oh yeah right...that would fly.

[Scorpion]

I can't believe you're getting kicked out of your house over a harmless drug.

*SIGH*



A2K

It is harmless if you can control yourself and know how to use it.

[Audrey2Katrina]

It is harmless if you can control yourself and know how to use it

If is a tiny word that casts a VERY LOOOONG shadow!

A2K

[brunota2003]

This whole situation just doesn't make sense. I can't believe you're getting kicked out of your house over a harmless drug. You should perhaps report your father to Dept of Children & Families(if they have that in Canada, or something similar). Perhaps you can explain that your friend put it in your backpack, and have your friend verify this.

a "harmless" drug? do you relise just how bad he can screw his life up by just posessing that "harmless" drug??? or how long he could be going to jail...if they catch you with drugs, regardless if your friend put them in there without permission or not, you are still in posession of them, whether you like it or not...both my parents are former USMC AND DOC (Dept of Corrections)

[Janice]

The first drug you take, even in small amounts, leads to the second drug you will take.

I bet you ask any group of youth, college kids, or adults if they just stopped after puffing on a weed. I bet say no. They took a few pills too.

Any place you go that offers weed, also offers other drugs.

One small harmless drug leads to other drugs.

We are not stupid here. We have been around.

Denial can be as bad as taking these drugs.

[GalvestonDuck]

Agree with so many of the above posts (Scorpion's excluded).

You need to talk openly and HONESTLY with your parents, even if you aren't honest with us.

Like Alicia said, you actually wanted to move out a short time ago, right? And then the blue hair? Changes like that in a teen's life sometimes clue adults in on deeper issues. Deal with those issues, grow up some, and then, maybe then, take a stab at going out into the real world, living in your own place.

And by "grow up some," I don't mean that in the usual, insulting "Grow up!" tone. I seriously mean allow yourself time to mature a bit more.

[TexasStooge]

Agree with so many of the above posts (Scorpion's excluded).

You need to talk openly and HONESTLY with your parents, even if you aren't honest with us.

Like Alicia said, you actually wanted to move out a short time ago, right? And then the blue hair? Changes like that in a teen's life sometimes clue adults in on deeper issues. Deal with those issues, grow up some, and then, maybe then, take a stab at going out into the real world, living in your own place.

And by "grow up some," I don't mean that in the usual, insulting "Grow up!" tone. I seriously mean allow yourself time to mature a bit more.

Well said.

[Stephanie]

I can't believe you're getting kicked out of your house over a harmless drug.

*SIGH*



A2K

It is harmless if you can control yourself and know how to use it.

No it is not - and I'm talking from experience. It pulls you down no matter how much you "think" you can control it.

conestoga - Janice and Duckie's posts say it all. You are going through a growing phase and do need to mature. We've ALL been there. Heed their advice.

[conestogo_flood]

I hate myself. Yes, there was more to the story which I do not wish to share. I'm at my breaking point right now, how did I get myself into this. God. I don't know what to do, I have nothing to do.

My dad says I've ruined everyones life and he is saying things that are making me feel so bad. Why is he doing this. Why is my life turning to sh*t.

I can't stop crying. I'm a loser. Why didn't I see this coming.

[Stephanie]

You also need to see a therapist/counselor.

[Janice]

Yes, you need to get some professional counseling. Do you have a minister you can contact. Tell your parents you would like to get some help and along with that, they can join you with it. It is never to late to try to fix things. You know you cannot do it by yourself. Take the first step.

[alicia-w]

I hate myself. Yes, there was more to the story which I do not wish to share. I'm at my breaking point right now, how did I get myself into this. God. I don't know what to do, I have nothing to do.

My dad says I've ruined everyones life and he is saying things that are making me feel so bad. Why is he doing this. Why is my life turning to sh*t.

I can't stop crying. I'm a loser. Why didn't I see this coming.

first of all, you have to take some responsibility for this. from what you chose to share, it isnt your dad's fault. i'm so tired of kids blaming their parents (or anyone else) for the problems they have. your dad is trying to get you to see some things beyond yourself and to not be so selfish. sounds like the advice to grow up couldnt come at a better time. and remember, there's ALWAYS someone worse off than you. So stand up straight, chin up, and be accountable. it isnt easy and it doesnt make everything better, but it's a start.

selectively spilling your guts to strangers doesnt help if you're leaving critical issues out. get off the computer and into real life to get your act together.

[HurricaneHunter914]

Alicia give the guy some slack, he's having a hard time right now and I think you'd feel like crap too if you were kicked out of your own house and was told by your own dad that you ruin everyones lives especially on Father's Day. Conestogo I hope things work out ok for you in the end and I agree with everyone else that "friend" of yours isn't a real friend.

[conestogo_flood]

It's really amazing how things change so fast.

I just talked to my mom about 30 minutes ago about what is going. She was really a big help, and right now I'm feeling calm. By the looks of it, this thread should be locked because people can't agree on anything.

I'm not insane or nothing, and things happen for a reason.

My mom is going to help me right now, she knows I can't move out I'm not ready and she is going to talk to my dad.

I guess I am taking "advantage" of storm2k a little much to burst my inner feelings as they come. Really, I am just starting to make friends with people so I was resorting to storm2k to talk about my feelings like I could do with friends. I recently made a new friend, and we have instantly connected and are pretty much best friends.

I don't know what I am going to do with Jay. I do value my friendship with him, he is my first best friend, but it's like they say all good things don't last forever. Maybe it's time we move apart, I don't know. It's too soon to tell.

This was a roller coaster.

[Janice]

Good luck and listen to your Mother.

[george_r_1961]

I hate myself. Yes, there was more to the story which I do not wish to share. I'm at my breaking point right now, how did I get myself into this. God. I don't know what to do, I have nothing to do.

My dad says I've ruined everyones life and he is saying things that are making me feel so bad. Why is he doing this. Why is my life turning to sh*t.

I can't stop crying. I'm a loser. Why didn't I see this coming.

first of all, you have to take some responsibility for this. from what you chose to share, it isnt your dad's fault. i'm so tired of kids blaming their parents (or anyone else) for the problems they have. your dad is trying to get you to see some things beyond yourself and to not be so selfish. sounds like the advice to grow up couldnt come at a better time. and remember, there's ALWAYS someone worse off than you. So stand up straight, chin up, and be accountable. it isnt easy and it doesnt make everything better, but it's a start.

selectively spilling your guts to strangers doesnt help if you're leaving critical issues out. get off the computer and into real life to get your act together.

Couldnt have said it better myself. You live in Canada; the help you need is probably FREE. As soon as you read this, get on the phone and call someone. And get out of denial! The road to recovery doesnt start until you admit you have a problem and you actively receive help for it!

This isnt the end of the world. Its not a death sentence. But im afraid if you do not act NOW...not 5 minutes from now..not tommorow but NOW, you may end up doing something you cant undo.

I would suggest calling your local hospital since its a weekend. Or better yet get someone to take you there so you can tell a trained proffesional what you have told us.

[george_r_1961]

Alicia give the guy some slack, he's having a hard time right now and I think you'd feel like crap too if you were kicked out of your own house and was told by your own dad that you ruin everyones lives especially on Father's Day. Conestogo I hope things work out ok for you in the end and I agree with everyone else that "friend" of yours isn't a real friend.

I think alicia knows what shes doing. Sometimes you gotta hurt someone feelings a little to get their attention.

[O Town]

Good luck conestogo. Just remeber life has just begun for you. You have a long time ahead of you to reconnect with Jay. Sometimes it comes to a point to go your seperate ways, and no telling what the future holds, you guys may find each other many, many years down the road when life is much different for both of you. I know this happened to a few of my best buds, we are closer now than ever. But we needed a break for different reasons. At this point in your life it sounds like you need to cut ties with him, ecspecially if you are truley trying to make an effort to straighten things out with yourself and family. Glad you are feeling better, moms have a way of doing that. Hopefully your dad will come around and be supportive of you efforts. Again good luck to you.