I say that there's only so much that can be done- and that is worth it to pursue. Will the money really make it better? Is he suffering from loss of income etc etc that isnt' being covered by insurance? Is he still eating well?
June 24th 2003 a tiny woman named Lisa took a second dose of her tylenol3 to combat the pain in her feet from a degenerative nerve disorder. The next day she had many errands to run so that she could be with her soon to be daughter in law on the 26th for her birthday, bridal portraits, and the wedding rehersal... and she wanted to be able to complete all her errands and not have to take a second dose of T3 *then*and risk being "out of it" the next day. This second dose was approved for "ocassional" use by her doctors. She had never actully taken one before because she'd lost about 40 pounds which made the pain in her feet lessen over the prior few months.
June 25th her 19 year old daughter came in to wake her up for the day of errands and found her in a coma. She was rushed to the hospital where her stomach was pumped and the doctors tried to figgure out why the overdose had proven so destructive. They stabalized her.
June 26th, her soon to be daughter in law had her birthday, and her bridal portraits, and her wedding rehersal without her- Lisa was still in the hospital, but looking up- the doctors said she was looking up enough to probably make it to the wedding in 9 days... and that no one should come visit her while she was resting- but awake- except her next of kin.
June 27th at 5 in the morning calls were sent across a network of family and that same soon-to-be daughter in law was the one to tell her fiancee to wake up and throw on his clothes- that his mother had taken a turn for the worse. A serious turn for the worse.
At 8pm June 27th, 2003 the world lost a happy, loving woman. 2 children, 19 and 23- lost thier mother. and I lost the woman who would have been my mother in law... if only she'd lived another 8 days.
All because some total dimwit doctor told her- lose 20 pounds to help the pain in your feet (She was 5'7 and weighed 100 pounds at her death- she lost 40) and didn't take into account the moderate liver damange he already had in her file when telling her she could take a second dose of tylenol3. The combination of the weight loss he'd encouraged- and approved of 3 weeks before her death, and the liver damage that she'd already suffered from (well documented since the early 90's) combined to make the second dose of tylenol lethal.
Oops. Sorry ma'am... You didn't need a mother-in-law after all. We have a firm and sturdy case for a lawsuit- the doctor approved/perscribed a lethal dose knowing her limitations (liver damage) and she died. Dead is dead is dead.
But we really thought about it, and considered it and decided against suing- even though she had no insurance and her bills were coming due. We investigated the matter and her estate couldn't have paid the 50,000$ in bills that were due- and we weren't likey to ever see a penny of any lawsuit- it would only go to the doctors bills. It woudln't go to taking care of her 19 year old daughter- now at the mercy of her family (and well taken care of) It would only complicate our lives with legal fees we can't afford and the pain of dealing with Lisa's death in a courtroom.
It was worth every penny we could have gotten from the lawsuit to be able to let it go- to learn to come to peace with mistakes... and to mourn privatly- and let her go.
there's a difference though- when you're still alive and dealing with the monetary repercussions of hospital stays- it all depends on whether his insurance will cover it (Lisa had no insurance) and whether his quality of life is severly degraded.
The pain and suffering? why put yourself through the pain, suffering, and expense of going to court? Lost wages- lost home, lost vehical... that's better reason to sue than the pain and suffering.
And of course standing in front of the doctor in question and screaming profanities at thier stupid, negligent, cowardly selves (the doctor tried to have her death ruled a willful suicide)- while throwing flowers from vases and screaming that they've ruined your life- your wedding, and everything that was bright and beautiful in the world...
Helps the emotional side of it all

If you don't... er... get thrown out of the hospital by security.
