j wrote:I was middle of the road. Hated the freaks, but hated the Jocks even more because they got all the girls. I managed to walk the line and keep friendly with both.
J - you said it well, better than I could. I always felt like I was in the middle too. Felt bad for the geeky girls, didn't make trouble for them, but was glad I wasn't in that group. Knew I couldn't penetrate the popular group - that was very understood. But they would talk to you in school - whew, that wasn't so bad. Just don't expect to hang out with them on weekends......LOL I had 2 good friends from HS and we formed a 3 way close friendship - almost unheard really. It was never 2 against 1, always all for one, one for all. We're still friends to this day. I had to ask the one girl if my memories of being happy being in the middle were accurate - hey maybe others thought I was a geek, how do I know? LOL She confirmed we were smack dab in the middle, out of 230 girls in our class and quite happy to be in the middle. I'm still a middle, don't stand out too much, kind of person. It just fits me.
Mary