BreinLa wrote:Mid 30's old no way I had my first at 35 and last lol at 39 and wouldn't do it any other way. Kids keep you young, here I am 52 still wearing tennis shoes and shorts and going out to the ballpark and sitting up in the stands at football games, volley ball games,etc. Having the time of my life and enjoying every minute of it that is until I here "Mom I need............ hehehehehehehhehe Congrats!!!!
Ditto on that 30s thing - that's not too old to have kids. I had my first at age 32, second at 35! I'm a much better parent at this age than had I had kids in my 20s, I think. Wiser, more mature - ha, whatever that is. But I'm still young at heart too, that's important.
Names.....well speaking from experience if you get your heart set on a name, I'd suggest keeping it to yourselves. We did just that, otherwise I know we would have received negative comments. I just didn't want to hear feedback - oh thaaaaat's a nice name, have you ever thought of such and such though? So when asked if we had names picked out, I'd fib a little and say - oh well, we're leaning towards one or two but will decide when the baby is born. A lie! We had Nina picked out from the day she was conceived! LOL
Mary