I'm getting divorced and my best friend is dying

HurricaneGirl · #1 Postby **HurricaneGirl** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 10:47 am

I feel like i'm going to lose my mind... any suggestions?

CajunMama · #2 Postby **CajunMama** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 11:08 am

How about a big hug and a should to lean and cry on? {{{{{HUGS}}}}

arkess7 · #3 Postby **arkess7** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 11:47 am

Awwwwwwwwwwwww! I am so sorry! Just try and think positive and stay strong.......spend as much time as you can with your best friend.... prayers and hugs are coming your way from Ocala.

TexasStooge · #4 Postby **TexasStooge** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 11:54 am

So sorry to hear about your day of bad news. :cry:

Like what arkess said, spend as much time with your best friend as you can.

Prayers and hugs coming from TX.

HurricaneHunter914 · #5 Postby **HurricaneHunter914** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:11 pm

Hurricane Girl I am so sorry that this is happenning to you and even though I'm young I've gone through hardships like this to and from expirience you have to keep a chin up, put a smile on your face, and hope for the very best. I'll put it in my prayer tonight.

HurricaneGirl · #6 Postby **HurricaneGirl** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:19 pm

I think prayers are the best medicine right now ya'll... thanks so much and put in some prayers for Tracy too.

I've been going to Blackshear every weekend to see Tracey and will continue to do so. We are trying to get her songs recorded before she gets to sick to sing play guitar.

#7 Postby **Stephanie** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:28 pm

CajunMama wrote:How about a big hug and a should to lean and cry on? {{{{{HUGS}}}}

DITTO!

I'm so sorry HG!!!

Lindaloo · #8 Postby **Lindaloo** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:38 pm

HurricaneGirl wrote:I think prayers are the best medicine right now ya'll... thanks so much and put in some prayers for Tracy too. I've been going to Blackshear every weekend to see Tracey and will continue to do so. We are trying to get her songs recorded before she gets to sick to sing play guitar.

(((HUGS))))

sunny · #9 Postby **sunny** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:48 pm

(((((HUGS)))))) Mary. You've got my ear anytime you need it sweetie.

HurryKane · #10 Postby **HurryKane** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 12:51 pm

huge hugs to you!

#11 Postby **Pburgh** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:00 pm

Prayers being said for you and Tracy. Please don't keep those feelings bottled up. Sounds like you're getting them out with your music and that's good. Keep those lines of communication open with your family and friends. These are two of the most stressful things that can happen and it's important to talk out your feelings. Let others help you thru this. Many big ((HUGS)). We're here for ya.
Karan

HurricaneGirl · #12 Postby **HurricaneGirl** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:29 pm

You guys are the greatest! I truly love and appreciate each and every one of you! Thanks for being my friends!

My brother Tommy lives with me now and he is also being very supportive and taking care of Rattboy when i go away on the weekends. He even works with me here at the jobsite and we ride to work together every day. I don't know how I got along without him

HurricaneGirl · #13 Postby **HurricaneGirl** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:40 pm

Here's a picture of me and Tracy with Gordon Lightfoot after the Jacksonville show on Feb. 8th.. I took Tracy and Tommy in a big Black super stretch Limo.. we had a blast!!

Miss Mary · #14 Postby **Miss Mary** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 1:51 pm

Mary - I'm so sorry to hear the sad news, on both accounts.

Very sorry to hear your best friend is dying. I wish I had the magic words here but I would suggest you be there for her, she's going to really need you.

As for your divorce, been there, done that. Was it easy - oh no. Took me at least a year before I felt even remotely normal. I would suggest you give yourself time, take it day by day, try to eat nourishing food, don't forget your vitamins, get some exercise and get decent rest. The body can handle a lot if it's fed well and rested. But did I do what I just suggested? Not at first, I skipped so many meals, not in a row but I lost weight and felt awful. After a few months I began to get my appetite back but my heart was still broken. Again, it took about a year to heal but there's a scar. There will always be a scar. Just don't be too hard on yourself, lean on your friends and family and tell yourself you'll survive (even if you don't believe it). Forcing positive thoughts when all else looks hopeful, is a mind trick I learned. It's not like you're being unrealistic but rather turning a negative into a positive.

Hugs and prayers. PM me anytime, also.

Mary

Skywatch_NC · #15 Postby **Skywatch_NC** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 2:18 pm

So very sorry, Mary...((((HUGS)))) , prayers and thoughts, Wxbuddy.

Eric

southerngale · #16 Postby **southerngale** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 3:15 pm

I'm sorry to hear this, HG. There's really nothing to say that will help, but I will pray for you and your best friend. And a great big hug for you!!

If you need a shoulder to lean on, or some typing fingers, I'm always here.

GulfBreezer · #17 Postby **GulfBreezer** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 3:35 pm

(((((((((((((MAJOR BEAR HUG)))))))))))))))))

Rainband · #18 Postby **Rainband** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 7:38 pm

GulfBreezer wrote:(((((((((((((MAJOR BEAR HUG)))))))))))))))))

I am praying for you.

#19 Postby **Stephanie** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:11 pm

That's a great picture HG.

#20 Postby **O Town** » Mon Mar 13, 2006 8:13 pm

Prayers are going out to you, Tracey, and families. Stay stronge. ((((((((Hugs)))))))))

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