Marley & Me

[Stephanie]

I think that's the reason why I haven't picked up the book yet, even though old age and a pet's death is natural. Now with my cat Mac having diabetes, I think I'm even more gun-shy.

[Miss Mary]

Steph - I can relate. Hope is 6 now and it will break my heart when she goes. But she's still in good shape. Has more energy than most 6 year old dogs I'm told. The Vet said she'll stay this energetic until the day she goes. She's the most hyper Golden he's ever seen.

The author of Marley & Me explains the difference about show dogs vs field dogs. He described field dogs to a T and that was his Marley, thru and thru. And I then looked at Hope and thought the same thing. People told us she was the field type Golden (more wirey hair, smaller paws, more energy) but until I read this author's explanation, it didn't quite register. Now I understand why my dog is so hyper at times. She can't help it, there is no way she'd be a therapy dog (although I joke she is mine, when I struggle with my post cancer woes). Her behavior comes from years and years of ancestoral influence. Field dogs worked the fields, they were working dogs that owners counted on to run and run.

When we first got Hope, I was giving her 5 walks a day. The Vet said wear this dog out, she has so much energy! So I did and my neighbors would drive by laughing, which walk is this - I'd either smile and say #5! Or sigh and say - #3, knowing we needed 2 more until she actually crashed on the floor. LOL

I've heard that some dogs have to be dragged out the door for a walk. All we have to do are certain walking habits and Hope ~knows~ a walk is coming - my hiking boots, her dad's raincoat or iPod. We always reach for the poop bags and leash last, in case there's a phone call or something. By then it would be mean to skip it. But up until then she is at our feet, hoping and hoping she'll get that beloved walk in.

I think I'm ready to finish that book now. Put it on a shelf Stephanie, you'll read it when you're ready.

Mary

[Stephanie]

Hope sounds like a fun, wonderful dog. Dogs and cats always sense when you're not feeling well and in their own way want to take care of you. We're a part of their pack or family. I'm sure that's what Hope was feeling when you were going through your initial bout with cancer.

She's giving you all a great benefit with all of those walks though - the exercise!

[CajunMama]

I finished the book yesterday....MsMary, get a caseload of kleenex ready! You'll cry but you'll understand how caring and loving the author is. The end pretty much hit home with me. I have a 17 1/2 year old mutt and I know the day is coming when we'll have to put her to sleep. She's a sweetie, still plays with the younger dogs, can still hop up onto the sofa, has all her teeth. I don't know what the other 2 dogs will do when she's gone.

[Miss Mary]

Cathy - you've given me courage to finish the book. I will, I will - just not today - too busy! And I don't want to lightly read it, I'd much rather have a quiet place in this house and finish it properly.

Here's a cute rescue dog article, very endearing. Makes me want to do this after Hope is gone. I can already hear my hubby though - wait, now that we no longer have a dog to kennel for trips, you want more dogs? LOL

http://news.enquirer.com/apps/pbcs.dll/ ... 30307/1086

Mary

PS - Cathy, sounds like you've given your older dog a loving home. 17.5 is a long time to last. That speaks volumes for your care as well. I'm sure it will break your heart. Had to smile at your - she has all teeth - comment. I instantly had an image of your pooch.