Seasons of Beauty

[Dee Bee]

Although I tend to make more humorous than serious postings, when read this reflective extended metaphor today in Daily Om I just had to share. Whether you are young , middle-aged, or senior, I hope you enjoy it, too!

Seasons of Beauty
Aging Gracefully

We tend to associate youth with beauty, but the truth is that beauty transcends every age. Just as a deciduous tree is stunning in all its stages--from its full leafy green in the summer to its naked skeleton during winter and everything in between--human beings are beautiful throughout their life spans.

The early years of our lives tend to be about learning and experiencing as much as we possibly can. We move through the world like sponges, absorbing the ideas of other people and the world. Like a tree in spring, we are waking up to the world. In this youthful phase of life, our physical strength, youth, and beauty help open doors and attract attention. Gradually, we begin to use the information we have gathered to form ideas and opinions of our own. As we cultivate our philosophy about life, our beauty becomes as much about what we are saying, doing, and creating as it is about our appearance. Like a tree in summer, we become full, expressive, beautiful, and productive.

When the time comes for us to let go of the creations of our middle lives, we are like a tree in autumn dropping leaves, as we release our past attachments and preparing for a new phase of growth. The children move on, and careers shift or end. The lines on our faces, the stretch marks, and the grey hairs are beautiful testaments to the fullness of our experience.

In the winter of our lives, we become stripped down to our essence like a tree. We may become more radiant than ever at this stage, because our inner light shines brighter through our eyes as time passes. Beauty at this age comes from the very core of our being-our essence. This essence is a reminder that there is nothing to fear in growing older and that there is a kind of beauty that comes only after one has spent many years on earth.

[Janice]

Thanks, so true.

[Pburgh]

You know I was wondering why I'm having so much trouble seeing now. At 61, it's that inner light shining so brightly that I can't see. The pains in my joints must be that beauty trying to come out of my very core.

Seriously, thanks, that was great.
Karan

[Janice]

Hey, Pburgh, I am 61 too..... these are my funnest years, I am having a good time and have tons to look forward. I am not hating aging more at all.

[Pburgh]

Nahhhh, I was just kidding. I love my age. I'm having lots of fun.

[Cookiely]

I can't agree with the last part. I've been around many elderly people and haven't seen anything resembling that statement. What I've witnessed is fear, loneliness, pain, financial insecurity, the recounting of past sins adnauseum and excuses for them. Also LOTS of bitterness. Last but not least, a lack of patience and apppreciation.

[Pburgh]

Cookiely, I'm sorry you've experience such sad people. With my experiences with the elderly what you have seen is the exception and not the rule. My Mom is 83 and one of the loveliest women you would ever want to meet. She's been a widow for 32 years.(My Dad died at 52) My Grandmothers were in their 90's when they died and they too had that inner light. I think maybe it is and was their deep religious belief in God.

[Stephanie]

You know I was wondering why I'm having so much trouble seeing now. At 61, it's that inner light shining so brightly that I can't see. The pains in my joints must be that beauty trying to come out of my very core.

Seriously, thanks, that was great.
Karan

It's something that I need to remember from time to time. Thanks for sharing!