The story of the captain vs a woman passenger from Saskatchewan:
After waiting for five lifeboats, Megan and her mom were in line for the last one on the low side. People were “pushing and grabbing at you because you’re sliding” and then Megan saw man with a baby in his arms and a woman holding a small child.
“I had been calm, I hadn’t screamed, I hadn’t yelled, but at that point, we shoved a little bit to get them through and get them on the boat,” she said.
“That boat went, and there was a moment of — there are no boats. All the lifeboats are gone.”
Two crew members led the rest of those waiting down a metal staircase to another deck. Water was washing up onto it, and having seen the nearby Tuscan island of Giglio earlier, Megan knew swimming might be their only option.
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Two women made sure four others got in ahead of them. If that Captain truly did abandon his passengers and ship (and it sure looks like he did) he is the lowest of the low.
Not sure if this can be heard elsewhere but it is a broadcast of the history of Captains that abandon their ship (and those that have followed the international standards of conduct) :
http://www.cbc.ca/thecurrent/episode/2012/01/20/abandoning-ship-history-of-captains/ the interview around 3 to 5 minutes in was interesting/informative.
also "Scorned Cruise Ship Captain Not Alone in History The captain of the wrecked Costa Concordia allegedly abandoned ship -- like many captains before him."
http://news.discovery.com/history/ship-captain-abandon-history-120117.htmlWhen I go on a cruise I'll be looking for one that has a Northern European Captain (not for the letting women and children go first but for maintaining order and *hopefully* for sticking with proper Maritime Conduct).
"On the other side of these tales of shame are numerous stories of nautical chivalry. One, involving the sinking of the troopship the HMS Birkenhead off the coast of South Africa in 1852, inspired the tradition of "women and children first."
The story goes that the soldiers' commanding officer, Lieutenant-Colonel Alexander Seton, ordered his men to help get the women and children on board the three lifeboats as the Birkenhead began sinking in shark-infested waters. Not a single woman or child lost their life, thanks to the soldiers who stoically stood on deck as the ship went down. Their sacrifice has gone down in maritime history as the Birkenhead Drill -- women and children first .For the most part, people aboard one of history's most famous shipwrecks, the Titanic, also followed the tradition of the "Birkenhead Drill." The Titanic's captain E.J. Smith admonished the men to "Be British," letting women and children leave first. In the best romantic tradition, he did go down with his ship.
Indeed, 74 percent of the women and 52 percent of the children were saved; while only 20 percent of the men survived.
But one cannot rely on the Birkenhead tradition on all ships. Of the 86 survivors of the Northfleet, which sank in the English Channel in 1873, there was only one woman and two children, while no woman is recorded as a survivor in the emigrant ship the London, which sank near Plymouth in 1865.
The chivalric code was also absent on the Costa Concordia, with people pushing to get into lifeboats -- leaving behind children, pregnant women and disabled people.
Nevertheless, acts of heroism emerged amid chaos and panic.
While the captain was ashore giving television interviews, four men -- a doctor, a young official, the ship's purser and the deputy mayor of the Giglio island, who boarded the ship after the disaster -- saved about 500 trapped passengers.
Among the heroes, the 57-year-old ship's purser, Manrico Giampedroni, was found trapped in the ship with a broken leg 36 hours after the collision."