In truth, it should have been a dual answer...I met her in high school, when she was a "waif"...tiny, big eyes, with a cute little derriere...1 "lost" her to another guy, and went on with my life.
17 years later, By chance, I "found" her again...2 years later, I marrried her, but for what turned out to be "convenience", and still later, "financial codependence"...in essence, "no one else would have me".
And I've been paying (literally and figuratively) for it ever since.
You asked...
