Awwwww....Miss Mary! I don't think age has anything to do with it. Maybe you just weren't meant to know French.
I tried off and on for years to learn how to play a musical instrument. I started in second grade with the flute. Later, it was piano, guitar, trumpet (wanted to play the UK fight song), guitar again, and drums. But no matter how hard I tried, I just couldn't get a grasp of reading music. I don't understand what I'm supposed to be hearing and what sounds I'm supposed to be making. I just don't have the ear for the notes. The only thing I really got a grip on was drums, because I played the beat and rhythm by ear. I don't know how I could do that and not the other, but I'm not that great. I never was able to buy a set so I could really practice. However, I played in my college band and my mom was like, "You're playing what...? Girls don't play drums." So I said, "But, mom...Karen Carpenter played drums." She couldn't really offer an argument after that because she absolutely loved the Carpenters.
Now, I've accepted the fact that I'm simply not meant to understand how to read music.
