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Why does this continue to surprise me?

#1 Postby GalvestonDuck » Fri Jul 16, 2004 8:48 am

It's not like it doesn't happen year after year during the hot summer months. Don't people have a clue by now?? Even if he had only intended to leave the boy there for a "short time," it's not right. There are cases where children have been known to knock the gearshift into neutral, causing the car to roll down a hill and either crash into traffic or go into a lake. Even those who leave the keys in the car with the AC running run the risk of having the vehicle carjacked and the child kidnapped.

ARRRGGGHHHH!!

http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&u ... ar_death_1

Boy, 3, Dies When Left in Hot Car by Dad
Thu Jul 15,11:05 PM ET

BOCA RATON, Fla. - A 3-year-old boy died Thursday after his father left him inside a closed sport utility vehicle for three hours, sheriff's officials said.

Dennis F. Sierra, a dentist, took his son Andres to work with him and left the boy in the car as he went into his office with the intention of being inside for a short time, Palm Beach County sheriff's spokeswoman Diane Carhart said.

A relative called Sierra about three hours later to ask about the boy, and the father and office employees rushed to the car to find Andres was not breathing.

They tried to revive the boy, but emergency workers found him in cardiac arrest when they arrived, Palm Beach fire-rescue spokesman Don DeLuca told the South Florida Sun-Sentinel.

The boy died about an hour later at West Boca Medical Center.

It was not immediately known if any charges would be filed. Sierra was not arrested Thursday, said his lawyer, Michael Salnick.

"This is an absolute tragedy, a nightmare," Salnick said. "Total devastation is the only way to describe how Dr. Sierra feels."

An autopsy was planned for Friday.
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#2 Postby Josephine96 » Fri Jul 16, 2004 9:06 am

Please forgive me for sounding racist.. But here in Florida you never hear of a white person doing something like this..

it's always a black or spanish person. Then the media gets all sympathetic for the person who did it.. even if charges are filed.. It really irks me..

Personally I think any person who leaves their child in the car even if the child survives should be locked up. It's child abuse and child endangerment..
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#3 Postby GalvestonDuck » Fri Jul 16, 2004 9:25 am

I remember reading a news story on the Lexington Herald-Leader website a few years ago about a woman who left two children in the car outside a Wal-Mart in Lexington while she went into a tanning place. Someone noticed the kids and hollered for help and a cop came and busted out the window of the car. Several people noticed the commotion and went to check it out. Among those, the mother of one of the children. :eek:

Apparently, the woman who found out one of the kids was hers worked at, of all places, the Herald-Leader. She got off work and went to Wal-Mart to pick up some stuff before going home. The babysitter was the one who took the kids with her so she could go to the tanning salong. She left her own child and the one she was babysitting in the car. Hers survived, the other one didn't.

Just found other info on it. I had it backwards -- the mom was going to the tanning bed after work, not the babysitter.

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Lexington, KY. Karen Burton Murphy was sentenced to 13 years imprisonment for the death of Bryan Puckett and the criminal abuse of her own son Jason Murphy. In July of 1999, Murphy left Bryan and Jason in her closed car for almost two and one-half hours while she shopped at the Lake Mist Plaza on Richmond Road.
During the trial of the case, evidence was presented that Murphy was under the influence of prescription medication when she left the children. The medication had been prescribed for her four year old daughter. Murphy also presented evidence that she was suffering from a seizure disorder and depression.

The jury found Murphy guilty but mentally ill. Under Kentucky law, a person found guilty but mentally ill will be provided treatment from the Department of Corrections until the treating professional determines that the treatment is no longer necessary. Murphy will be eligible for parole when she has served one-fifth of her sentence.


http://www.kidsandcars.org/bryan's_story.htm

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William and Michelle Puckett, Winchester, KY

This is our story.
On August 10, 1998 we got an early surprise. Our son, (1st and only child) Bryan Edward was born. He was almost 2 months early and we were scared to death. Bryan stayed at the hospital that he was delivered at for about 4 hours before they took him to the University of Kentucky Neonatal ICU where he stayed only 1 week and he got to come home healthy. For the next few months we got the hang of being new parents. My wife Michelle was off work for 12 weeks after the birth and bonded with her baby. I stayed home for about 2 weeks then went back to work. I am a full time firefighter-EMT and I work 24-hour shifts so I am gone 1 day and home for 2 days. (<18 hours) Michelle worked nights at the Lexington Herald Leader newspaper in Lexington, KY. This worked out well when my wife went back to work because I would watch Bryan on my days off and his God Mother would watch him the nights both of us worked.

Around 4 to 5 months after Bryan was born we found out he had severe asthma and we had to watch him very closely every time he got sick. February 14, 1999 he got sick and we had to spend 1 week at the hospital in an oxygen tent. Bryan had very hard time breathing and had a high temperature. Shortly after that Michelle decided she was tired of working nights and not getting to spend time with Bryan so she went to day shift and that put on the hunt for childcare. That finely brought us to the door of Karen Murphy.

Karen was a RN and a mother of a 2. A girl names Rachael (3 years-old) and a son Jason. (1 year-old) We met with her several times before taking Bryan to meet her. Bryan and her son started playing and we talked to Karen and decided she was the right person to take care of our pride and joy.

The first day Michelle dropped him off and I picked him up early. When I got there she was carrying him and he was very happy. She have me a report of the days activities and we talked for a few minutes of things she would need. For the next few months this was about the way it went. When I was off I would pick him up early most of the time. I would never let him know I was coming. I would just show up knocking at the door. Every time every thing was the same. Bryan was happy and Karen would give a report of Bryan's day.
On July 13th, 1999 it started just liked every other day. Michelle took Bryan to Karen's at 7:30am and at around 8:45am she called Michelle and said Bryan had a temperature. She wanted to give him Tylenol because he was teething. Michelle said ok and they talked for 10 to 15 minutes. Around noon I went to the paper to have lunch with Michelle and she decided to go to the tanning bed with her friend Suzie. So I was to pick Bryan up around 4:30pm. I was working that day at my 2nd job. Around 4:30pm I was sitting at Karen's house to pick up Bryan. Around 4:45pm or 5pm Karen's husband showed up and invited me in. This did not concern me because Michelle did not pick Bryan up until around 5:50pm so Karen could be gone to the store.

Around 5:25pm Michelle called Karen's house wanting to know what time I picked up Bryan. George (Karen's husband) said William is here waiting on Bryan to get back. Karen was not home yet and Michelle asked to speak to me. She was still at the newspaper and was going to be later getting home than she had planned. She started telling me about what was going on at a local mall. Someone had locked 2 children in a car. Right off she asked, "You don't think that was Bryan?" I said "no way", Bryan is with Karen and he is fine.

I sat with George for about 10 to 15 minutes. Then I started getting worried where is my son; where is Karen? So I went outside to call Michelle's cell phone when I did someone answered her phone and said he was with two police officers and that I should go to the hospital and that my wife was on her way there.

I asked what was going on and no one would tell me what was going on; just that I needed to get to the hospital. I went back in to tell George something had happened and right at the same time the phone rang. It was Michelle. She was screaming and crying saying it was our baby locked in the car and that she was on the way to the hospital with a police officer and for me to meet them there.

I ran out of the Murphy's house and got to the hospital as fast as I could. When I go there they took me to Michelle and about 10 minutes later the doctor came in and told us this was the hardest thing that he ever had to do. He told us that our son was dead! He was only 11 months old.

Our son is dead today because his babysitter left him in her car for almost 2 hours while she shopped. It was 82 degrees that day. She said that he was sleeping and she did not want to bother him. She was just going to be a few minutes. Just a few minutes turned into almost 120 minutes before she went back to her car. There are allot of other things that happened that I cannot talk about because of the trial is still pending for August 2000.

Karen claims she had a mental seizure that made her forget or loose track of time. This would not of made a difference is she would have taken my child in with her. Karen also left her own child, Jason in the car right beside my son. Jason lived and we don't know how he is doing today. She knew she left them and that is all that matters to my wife and me.

After all of this we are fighting for Bryans Law in Kentucky. It will say that if a person dies from being left in a situation that causes death you will be charged with 2nd degree manslaughter, whether if be a child or an elderly person.

In closing this I would like to say that we now have twin boys and we are very excited. We would like people to realize that leaving our children in car is deadly. It is something that we never did and something we will never do. We will continue to educate people and keep public awareness up on this issue.
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#4 Postby BocaGirl » Fri Jul 16, 2004 9:38 am

[quote="Josephine96"]Please forgive me for sounding racist.. But here in Florida you never hear of a white person doing something like this..

it's always a black or spanish person. Then the media gets all sympathetic for the person who did it.. even if charges are filed.. It really irks me..

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John, your comments saddened me. I really don't know if here in Florida we have heard of a white person leaving a child in a car. I didn't do the research. I wouldn't know where to look.

However my sister works hand in hand with DCF and the horrific acts commited against children by people of all races on any given day are enough to make any sane person cry. Rarely do any of those acts make the news.

Tsk tsk John. You post about your church activities and your church attendance. Then you turn around and make a statement that is so clearly racist that it makes me wonder if you pay attention to the message that is preached about God's love and understanding.

The fact that a child was left in a car and died is indeed a tragedy. A crime? It will be up to the law and courts. The color of the the father's skin and his origin should not enter into the discussion.

Period.

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#5 Postby Amanzi » Fri Jul 16, 2004 10:07 am

How anyone can be so freakin senseless is beyond me! Leaving a child in a car in the heat, you may as well stick them in the oven to bake! I think when woman are pregnant they should be forced to take parenting classes! This is the kind of thing every mother and child care provider should know, along with not leaving plastic bags and chemicals in a childs reach. There are so many things that seem to be common sense to some and others just dont seem to get it! Another thing that drives me nuts is when people leave animals in cars!
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#6 Postby Josephine96 » Fri Jul 16, 2004 10:50 am

I'm sorry Boca.. You're right.. It was incredibly insensitive to my fellow racial diversities..

It is always a horrific crime no matter what type of person does it.. and I should have never said that..

My apologies to everyone who may have been offended.. I should have reworded it completely..
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#7 Postby Lindaloo » Fri Jul 16, 2004 11:05 am

Statistics do show that John. However, it is still a tragedy no matter what. We are talking about negligent parents and the children are always the one's who suffer.
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#8 Postby Josephine96 » Fri Jul 16, 2004 11:25 am

Yes that's true Linda.. I must admit.. I probably shed a tear or 2 everytime I hear 1 of these stories..

Parents can't be negligent like this and expect to get away with it. They should be severely punished for these crimes..
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#9 Postby Guest » Fri Jul 16, 2004 2:05 pm

When a tragedy like this happens, it's devestating because it was PREVENTABLE! The picture was a little too much for me. It broke me to tears. Those poor babies...
...Jennifer...
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#10 Postby Josephine96 » Fri Jul 16, 2004 2:36 pm

I have to agree Jennifer.. I don't know which stories drive me more crazy.. These stories or everytime a missing little girl is found dead..

I'm still seeing occasional pics on the news too of the surveillance tape from the Carlie Brucia murder..
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#11 Postby rainstorm » Fri Jul 16, 2004 5:14 pm

its murder , pure and simple. everyone knows this is murder. i think a parent that does this wants their child to die. it is not possible that he just left the child locked up for 3 hours in a broiling sun. he knew exactly what he was doing
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