Theresa is a TWISTED LIAR! :((

[Miss Mary]

Sigh......I would be the very last person to say I told ya so John.

Just remember, rumors have to start with something. If a person is honest and up front, what can people gossip about? Not much....

LOL @ Brent! I hear ya.....that was my opinion 20 odd years ago. Until I met my husband now..... There are good guys/girls out there.....it is hard to find them (what Cindy eluded to). Funny thing is too, when I had decided I had just about had it with dating and was giving up dating or looking, I joined the co-ed softball team Jim was on. And sparks flew. The rest as they is history. We were ~friends~ first. That does help.

And Cindy - you've told me about Shelby but somehow reading that again, start to finish (her whole current situation) made me just want to cry. And then I was so angry for her. I could throttle that guy.

Mary

[Josephine96]

when did you tell me so, Mary? lol

and by the way.. How much do you wanna bet.. that the cashier I'm calling J will say "I told you so" when she comes in Sunday..

[Miss Mary]

when did you tell me so, Mary? lol

I'd never be that cruel. I just didn't want you to get hurt and I suspected she was married John.

Mary

[Josephine96]

Ah ok lol

Well.. apparently she just has a boyfriend.. No kids.. no hubby.

I think I also did the smart thing and told her "don't come running" if her and her bf break up. I'm not so sure I'd want the oppurtunity if it rose a 2nd time.

I would have to forgive her for betraying me 1st.. and then I would have consider it very carefully.. I think I'll just go find somebody else lol.. It'll keep me less in deep thought lol

[Miss Mary]

Ah ok lol

Well.. apparently she just has a boyfriend.. No kids.. no hubby.

I think I also did the smart thing and told her "don't come running" if her and her bf break up. I'm not so sure I'd want the oppurtunity if it rose a 2nd time.

I would have to forgive her for betraying me 1st.. and then I would have consider it very carefully.. I think I'll just go find somebody else lol.. It'll keep me less in deep thought lol

John!!! Listen to Brent. Go back and read his post. Re-read your second to last sentence......take a break from looking. That's what I recommend. That is almost precisely when you will meet someone! It not only happened to me but I've noticed it has for other people. Sometimes when you try so hard to find that special person, it chases people away. They must know you're looking or something. When I was so disgusted with dating and ready to join a Convent (not really), things changed for me.

Hang in there...

Mary

[Josephine96]

I can do that.. I wasn't even really looking.. I just developed some feelings for Theresa.. and I thought I'd act on them.. of course it didn't work lol..

I need to ask you guys a couple of really silly questions..?

1. Is there anything wrong with me..? Because girls never seem to want to be in a relationship with me.. Like do I have a flaw or 2 that scares them off..

2. Is there any problems with the types of girls I like..? I only like the 1's that have a combo of brains and beauty.. but they also seem to be the 1's that give me the most trouble. The "not so pretty" ones lol treat me like gold a lot. But I also believe every woman is beautiful in some way, shape or form lol..

oh well.. I think I'm done now.. I'm actually feeling kinda down for the 1st time today.. Wondering what the hell lol has developed on the rumor mill since I left Wally World @ 5:30. But also wishing that I could have someone who I work with who would check up on me.. {I know I'll see them on Sunday lol.. but it kinda hurts when you can't see or chat with them the exact second you need them} PLEASE don't take that as offense to you guys.. I don't mean it that way.. I'm just suddenly becoming a little depressed over the day.. Maybe the shock is hitting lol..

[Josephine96]

I also have a couple other questions that I wouldn't mind having somebody take a stab at if you all don't mind..

[rainstorm]

i hope you learned a valuable lesson here
a-people that tell you rumors arent your friends. more often than not they tell you a rumor to hurt you
b-dont brag to other people, and especially dont brag about a girl
c-dont tell people any of your business. why? because its none of their business
d-you blew it. i wish i could say it nicer. she may really have liked you and wanted to what you were like. by telling people and bragging, and also by listening to rumors, you put her in an extremely awkward position.
who knows, maybe she is unhappy in her present relationship and thats why she was interested in you.
bottom line: when someone tells you a rumor, tell them to tell it to the wall, you arent interested.
and, dont tell your private business to anyone.

[Josephine96]

boy you're a big help rs lol..

[rainstorm]

i just hope this will make you wiser the next time. live and learn. at bbw recently a girl wanted to tell me a "rumor" about another girl. hehe. before she could get it out i said "wait till i tell you what i heard about you". you dont even want to know what i told her i heard about her.

[kmanWX]

E- It's never a good idea to ask someone at your job out..

A,B,C and D from above is the truth

[Josephine96]

LOL.. Rumors definitely fly when relationships are possible.. Especially when you work in a big store like mine..

I know 1 thing.. when I go into work Sunday.. when I see that 1 cashier.. I wanna tell her.. "when and if there's a next time.. please mind your own business" {the 1 who seems to be the head of the rumor cult lol}

[Guest]

Let this be a good lesson, a lesson that relationships are NOT what they appear to be. It is akin to opening a large package and only finding a block of wood in it.

[Josephine96]

LOL.. That's 1 way of putting it.. It seems with every possible relationship I have had.. I learn lesson after lesson.. Some of the lessons are even repeated lol

[Guest]

LOL.. That's 1 way of putting it.. It seems with every possible relationship I have had.. I learn lesson after lesson.. Some of the lessons are even repeated lol

That's why I avoid them like the plague now. You never know what you are going to get your self into.

[Josephine96]

How true that is.. I know every 1 of my friends tells me "you don't need a girl to tell you how much they love you.. if ya ever need to know. just ask 1 of us and we'll tell you".. but.. It's kinda hard.. Makes me feel kinda lonely sometimes when I see that just about every one else has someone but me..

Although.. I actually talked to a girl I work with today.. who is going out with another 1 of the buggy pushers and she is beginning to hate the relationship because he is moving way too fast.. {and this is the same kid that told me to try to move a little quicker because I let Ariana slip through my fingers lol}..

being single has it perks..

[cswitwer]

Keep your chin up, man... and stay above the gossips. You deserve better! And I hope you can keep smilin'. You'll find what you're lookin' for one of these days, and today will just help make the right woman feel even that more special when you meet her!

[Guest]

How true that is.. I know every 1 of my friends tells me "you don't need a girl to tell you how much they love you.. if ya ever need to know. just ask 1 of us and we'll tell you".. but.. It's kinda hard.. Makes me feel kinda lonely sometimes when I see that just about every one else has someone but me....

I had the feeling about two years ago. That is what caused me to strive for a girlfriend. Finally, fall 2003 comes about and Emily pops ALMOST into my life. She begins to get untruthful, and I run away from her like there is an F5 twister on my tail!

[Josephine96]

That's true.. Gotta remember to keep my head high

As 1 of my managers said today.. "There are plenty of fish in the sea.. and you are just a worm to attract those fish" lol..

This isn't hurting too terribly because I have been hurt worse.. MUCH worse lol.. so this only stings.. It really doesn't send any sharp pains through me .. if ya get my drift lol

[Josephine96]

Maybe she was an F 5 lol..