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- azskyman
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Amen to those comments Mary. DeeBee has earned the trip, and it should be nice down there in the keys.
Unless you are a teacher, you really can't appreciate the importance of being at your job and 100% every day. It is one of the most demanding careers there is.
So kick off the shoes, walk in the sand, and listen to a little bit of Kenny Chesney's "When the Sun Goes Down" while sipping on something cold, Deebee.
Steve
Unless you are a teacher, you really can't appreciate the importance of being at your job and 100% every day. It is one of the most demanding careers there is.
So kick off the shoes, walk in the sand, and listen to a little bit of Kenny Chesney's "When the Sun Goes Down" while sipping on something cold, Deebee.
Steve
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Some history on me.....worked after high school, skipping college. Until age 30. Enrolled full time, quitting my full time job. Went to school during the day with traditional age students. I knew then and there what I had missed out on but at least I was going. Within 1 year I chose El Ed as my major, since several friends were teachers (and one was Jim's sister). They all said it was the best career and I had missed out on having kids. So that would fill a void too. First husband didn't want kids...another story, another day. Then I began dating Jim and once we married, Nina came along pretty quickly. And so did my college 'career'. One semester off turned into 2 and so on. I became a stay at home mom, thriving on it. By the time I got back to college I knew I didn't want to be a teacher! By this time I knew many of my children's teachers and they had kids - they were all exhausted! I volunteered plenty and could see what a teachers' day was like - you had to be on, all day long. No taking a smoke break (not that I do) or coffee break. If you do get a break, where do you go? Someone is always coming up to you, asking questions, about Johnny this or that. Sure classes go off for music or art, but teachers are still very busy during this 30 minute period. Maybe this is when they wolf down their lunch!
So what I'm trying to say is, thanks for getting that I 'get it' Steve - oh yeah I do. I get so upset when non-teachers say they have the best schedule in the world. They don't even work 8 hour days and get the summer off! Ha on the 8 hour bit and that summer off? Wrong again. I know plenty that have to do inservice seminars or take classes. They remain at school a few days to a week after the break starts then come back a week before school begins.
I'm done! I just knew it wasn't for me but this profession certainly has my utmost respect.
Mary
So what I'm trying to say is, thanks for getting that I 'get it' Steve - oh yeah I do. I get so upset when non-teachers say they have the best schedule in the world. They don't even work 8 hour days and get the summer off! Ha on the 8 hour bit and that summer off? Wrong again. I know plenty that have to do inservice seminars or take classes. They remain at school a few days to a week after the break starts then come back a week before school begins.
I'm done! I just knew it wasn't for me but this profession certainly has my utmost respect.
Mary
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Wow, a place where I can completely talk about whatever the blazing heck I want.
Hmmm where to start? Well, today was the last day of summer swim practice. The last day i'll ever see some of my favorite swimmers. [I'm a coach.] For TEN WHOLE MONTHS! Yikes!
Prelims and Championships are tomorrow and Saturday, along with the large mass of parties in between. I can't wait, to be honest. And now that i'm finishing up my 2nd year of coaching... I can't wait for a third. It's been the best experience, two years in a row, and to be the idol of so many 4-12 year old's is truly amazing. I wouldn't trade it for the world.





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Swimdude.... I'm a recreational swimmer (masters) and I know what you mean about last day of practice. You don't have practice again until August/Sept... that a long time (in a swimming season) to take off.
Well, tomorrow is the last day I'll be in WI for a week... of to Langley AFB for Haz Mat school.... be back just in time for the 4th weekend. I'm still waiting for my deployment orders... don't know when they are coming in.... love this game of hurry up & wait. (urgh!) Patience is a virtue.... oh joy.
My commander (and Western Illinois Vice Chancellor) told me to take off for this next school year... MET classes cannot be taken online. Bummer. Oh well, I'll have to enjoy the time off of school.
I get to see one of my 2nd Lieutenants in uniform tomorrow... Yeah! She's been gone on personal leave for cancer... We're definitely glad to see her back
She was on base on & off throughout her treatments... just as a civilian... but she's back now
Have a wonderful weekend.
Ladies... I'm having fun trying to cope... my right index fingernail was super long (I NEVER have fingernails... I bite them off.) so I was babying it... and today I had to rip it off... the nail was splitting...
Dude, I'm having fun trying to adjust without the fingernail.
Well, tomorrow is the last day I'll be in WI for a week... of to Langley AFB for Haz Mat school.... be back just in time for the 4th weekend. I'm still waiting for my deployment orders... don't know when they are coming in.... love this game of hurry up & wait. (urgh!) Patience is a virtue.... oh joy.
My commander (and Western Illinois Vice Chancellor) told me to take off for this next school year... MET classes cannot be taken online. Bummer. Oh well, I'll have to enjoy the time off of school.
I get to see one of my 2nd Lieutenants in uniform tomorrow... Yeah! She's been gone on personal leave for cancer... We're definitely glad to see her back





Have a wonderful weekend.
Ladies... I'm having fun trying to cope... my right index fingernail was super long (I NEVER have fingernails... I bite them off.) so I was babying it... and today I had to rip it off... the nail was splitting...


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Yes, the season is completely over now. The end was better than i'd ever thought. The season concluded with the exact same words spoken between my head coach [technically my boss, but she's more like an older friend] and I...
Me: "You know, I'd love to come back next year."
Her: "You don't even have to ask."

Me: "You know, I'd love to come back next year."
Her: "You don't even have to ask."

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- azskyman
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Swimdude...congratulations on a great year of coaching!
Nice to know you'll have that job back next year if you want it!
It is still 101 out here...so I am about to jump in the pool myself. I love it just after dark when the air is still and water is about 88 degrees!
I'll do a lap for you in celebration of your year of coaching (and to help get my legs back in shape after this winter's surgery!)
Nice to know you'll have that job back next year if you want it!
It is still 101 out here...so I am about to jump in the pool myself. I love it just after dark when the air is still and water is about 88 degrees!
I'll do a lap for you in celebration of your year of coaching (and to help get my legs back in shape after this winter's surgery!)
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Swimdude, where do you coach at? Is it a neighborhood pool or something like the YMCA? If it is a neighborhood pool did you attend the Meet of Champs this weekend at the Spring Branch Natatorium? Congratulations on a job well done!!!
Pojo-am I to understand that because of your deployment you won't be attending school next year? That will be a wierd feeling for you!!!! Ever since I've known you, you have been in school!!
Pojo-am I to understand that because of your deployment you won't be attending school next year? That will be a wierd feeling for you!!!! Ever since I've known you, you have been in school!!
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Since it isn't raining --yet -- I'm stepping out onto the porch for my morning coffee on this last day of vacation.
Thank you for the kind and thoughtful words posted earlier, azskyman and Miss Mary.
Being an educator isn't an easy job, at any level. Example: the week before the middle school year ended when I was enormously pregnant with my daughter in 1980 I remember a staffing for a seriously disruptive student at which the mother opened the meeting by announcing to the assembled teachers and administrators that she told her son he didn't have to do anything those d**n teachers told him if he didn't want to. The principal was wise enough to follow that up by thanking her for coming and, since there was really nothing left to discuss, closing the meeting.
My point is that so many parents (or television stars or popular music stars or other pubic figures, for that matter) merely give lip service to the "value of education." They vaguely agree that education is important, but laughingly admit to, condone, or even encourage breaking procedures/rules/regulations and skipping the required concentration/hard work.
Another phenomenom that irritates --and saddens -- me, especially since I teach at the post-secondary level now, is the idea that everyone is entitled to a college degree. Originally, that concept referred to those who were cut off from higher education because of financial circumstances. Now far too many students believe they can earn a degree just like they earned a high school diploma -- merely by showing up for class.
A third problem really reflects the state of education in America: Increasingly, colleges must offer remedial courses in math and reading/writing before students can handle entry-level courses. This is especially true at community colleges or institutions which primarily award associate degrees. My current school offers AS and BS degrees. Each term, rising numbers of students in my freshman comp classes have been required to take remedial (called "enrichment" -- just like the old elementary "Bluebird" and "Eagle" reading groups ? -- ) because they entered here with such low reading/writing abilities. [Keep in mind that this category of college doesn't require ACT/SAT scores to enroll.]
If the lack of basic reading/writing/math skills weren't serious enough, the number of students who don't know how to study is disturbing. I'm talking about the basics: how to take notes effectively, how to organize materials, how to listen, how to participate in discussion (we can thank the plethora of ranting, illogical radio/TV talk shows for this), and how to manage time efficiently.
But the good news is that these students who had such ineffective primary and secondary educational experiences have a chance to boost their critical thinking skills and to explore advanced career opportunities.
Yes, I am positive and passionate about education. Most of my passion is fueled by the dreams and determination of my students. I learn so much from them!
Jumping off the soapbox and switching gears here, my mini-vacation in Key West was indeed marvelous. I think the best part was that I was physically able to walk my legs off sightseeing nearly all day Friday without using my cane (which I brought along just in case). Our bed and breakfast was charming, the sunsets were gorgeous, and the drinks were mighty fine -- my favorite was a Key Lime Martini rimmed with finely shredded toasted coconut! Ever the English teacher, I made sure to visit and photograph the Hemingway House, the Robert Frost cottage, the Elizabeth Bishop house, and the Tennessee Williams house (now a private residence). We hope to drive back for another long weekend before the winter rates kick in.
OK, time to run errands before the daily deluge begins. This has been the rainiest rainy season here in SE Florida in ages....
Dee Bee
Thank you for the kind and thoughtful words posted earlier, azskyman and Miss Mary.
Being an educator isn't an easy job, at any level. Example: the week before the middle school year ended when I was enormously pregnant with my daughter in 1980 I remember a staffing for a seriously disruptive student at which the mother opened the meeting by announcing to the assembled teachers and administrators that she told her son he didn't have to do anything those d**n teachers told him if he didn't want to. The principal was wise enough to follow that up by thanking her for coming and, since there was really nothing left to discuss, closing the meeting.
My point is that so many parents (or television stars or popular music stars or other pubic figures, for that matter) merely give lip service to the "value of education." They vaguely agree that education is important, but laughingly admit to, condone, or even encourage breaking procedures/rules/regulations and skipping the required concentration/hard work.
Another phenomenom that irritates --and saddens -- me, especially since I teach at the post-secondary level now, is the idea that everyone is entitled to a college degree. Originally, that concept referred to those who were cut off from higher education because of financial circumstances. Now far too many students believe they can earn a degree just like they earned a high school diploma -- merely by showing up for class.
A third problem really reflects the state of education in America: Increasingly, colleges must offer remedial courses in math and reading/writing before students can handle entry-level courses. This is especially true at community colleges or institutions which primarily award associate degrees. My current school offers AS and BS degrees. Each term, rising numbers of students in my freshman comp classes have been required to take remedial (called "enrichment" -- just like the old elementary "Bluebird" and "Eagle" reading groups ? -- ) because they entered here with such low reading/writing abilities. [Keep in mind that this category of college doesn't require ACT/SAT scores to enroll.]
If the lack of basic reading/writing/math skills weren't serious enough, the number of students who don't know how to study is disturbing. I'm talking about the basics: how to take notes effectively, how to organize materials, how to listen, how to participate in discussion (we can thank the plethora of ranting, illogical radio/TV talk shows for this), and how to manage time efficiently.
But the good news is that these students who had such ineffective primary and secondary educational experiences have a chance to boost their critical thinking skills and to explore advanced career opportunities.
Yes, I am positive and passionate about education. Most of my passion is fueled by the dreams and determination of my students. I learn so much from them!
Jumping off the soapbox and switching gears here, my mini-vacation in Key West was indeed marvelous. I think the best part was that I was physically able to walk my legs off sightseeing nearly all day Friday without using my cane (which I brought along just in case). Our bed and breakfast was charming, the sunsets were gorgeous, and the drinks were mighty fine -- my favorite was a Key Lime Martini rimmed with finely shredded toasted coconut! Ever the English teacher, I made sure to visit and photograph the Hemingway House, the Robert Frost cottage, the Elizabeth Bishop house, and the Tennessee Williams house (now a private residence). We hope to drive back for another long weekend before the winter rates kick in.
OK, time to run errands before the daily deluge begins. This has been the rainiest rainy season here in SE Florida in ages....
Dee Bee
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vbhoutex wrote:Pojo-am I to understand that because of your deployment you won't be attending school next year? That will be a wierd feeling for you!!!! Ever since I've known you, you have been in school!!
yes, I will not be attending school at Western Illinois. Yes, it will be awkward for me not to attend school, but since it is MET classes, my commander and dean of the Geography dept. suggested that I not attend classes. I can save money for school then.
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Rain? What is that?! It has been the dryest year I can remember living in Iowa... no fun!
How's everyone been? If you haven't seen my other thread, I am no longer carrying my child, he popped out on Father's Day! I don't even wanna talk about the labor, let's just say it wasn't fun! But now my boy is 18 days old, and I think he is going to lose his umbilical cord today, it's loose around most of it! I've just been leaving it alone to let it handle itself!
Being a mom is incredible! I was scared to death at first, not to mention dealing with a bit of postpartum depression (and the heat only made that worse)- but it's getting better as time goes by. I just wish he would learn to sleep through the night! Or at least only wake up once!
Last night was one of the badder nights, but he's had a few good ones too.
Other than that, I don't really have any new news! I've enjoyed not working.... don't think I'll go back for a bit yet, as long as we can afford it! I'm not ready to think about sending my baby to a daycare yet!
Well, I've actually got lots to do while the baby is sleeping so I better get a move on, I'll post as much as I can!
How's everyone been? If you haven't seen my other thread, I am no longer carrying my child, he popped out on Father's Day! I don't even wanna talk about the labor, let's just say it wasn't fun! But now my boy is 18 days old, and I think he is going to lose his umbilical cord today, it's loose around most of it! I've just been leaving it alone to let it handle itself!
Being a mom is incredible! I was scared to death at first, not to mention dealing with a bit of postpartum depression (and the heat only made that worse)- but it's getting better as time goes by. I just wish he would learn to sleep through the night! Or at least only wake up once!

Other than that, I don't really have any new news! I've enjoyed not working.... don't think I'll go back for a bit yet, as long as we can afford it! I'm not ready to think about sending my baby to a daycare yet!
Well, I've actually got lots to do while the baby is sleeping so I better get a move on, I'll post as much as I can!
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Jackie - oh I remember those early parenting days. You do have to take advantage of times the baby sleeps. I remember getting so much accomplished in say 90 minutes - now I ask, where is that girl I used to be? LOL 90 minutes can zip by while I'm putzing around on the computer. Back then I could do laundry, mop floors, clean bathrooms, unload, reload the DW, wipe down kitchen counters, do some ironing, all while the baby was sleeping. I was younger back then, that's it...or at the very least, what I'm telling myself here! he he
My husband's family is going thru a very sad time right now. So if I pull back from posting a lot, I am either just regrouping or have other responsibilities. His brother who was disabled over 5 years ago from a devastating, massive stroke is getting divorced. Such a long story but the divorce was not his idea. They have a little girl, 5, who's going into K next month. Many, many changes ahead for this family and we're not sure where he'll end up yet. He's only 43. Such a sad, sad breakup. Of course I have some experience with getting a divorce you don't want but in my case, I was healthy and could take care of myself. If you think of it, just say a prayer for my BIL Jay. I don't want to make a big announcement about this so I thought the porch topic was the best forum to mention it. It is somewhat private too but if this were a real porch and I just sat down, I know I'd share the shocking news with all of you. I just know I could never do something like this and then look myself in the mirror. Everyone in the family, sisters, father, in-laws, grandchildren, are all saying this. So I'm not alone in this opinion. We see how hard it's been for the wife but how can you leave a spouse who needs you this much? Thanks for listening, my S2K family. My heart is broken these days, but it will mend again. There are quite a few cracks in this ole heart of mine but I keep patching the darn thing up! And it keeps ticking away.....
Mary
My husband's family is going thru a very sad time right now. So if I pull back from posting a lot, I am either just regrouping or have other responsibilities. His brother who was disabled over 5 years ago from a devastating, massive stroke is getting divorced. Such a long story but the divorce was not his idea. They have a little girl, 5, who's going into K next month. Many, many changes ahead for this family and we're not sure where he'll end up yet. He's only 43. Such a sad, sad breakup. Of course I have some experience with getting a divorce you don't want but in my case, I was healthy and could take care of myself. If you think of it, just say a prayer for my BIL Jay. I don't want to make a big announcement about this so I thought the porch topic was the best forum to mention it. It is somewhat private too but if this were a real porch and I just sat down, I know I'd share the shocking news with all of you. I just know I could never do something like this and then look myself in the mirror. Everyone in the family, sisters, father, in-laws, grandchildren, are all saying this. So I'm not alone in this opinion. We see how hard it's been for the wife but how can you leave a spouse who needs you this much? Thanks for listening, my S2K family. My heart is broken these days, but it will mend again. There are quite a few cracks in this ole heart of mine but I keep patching the darn thing up! And it keeps ticking away.....
Mary
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Prayers being sent across the river over to you. I wish I knew what else to say.
As you've all seen elsewhere in this forum, I'm dealing with my own heartbreak. It's hard. Especially since before Monday, I felt there was a connection between me and this person. But it was not to be, and there must have been good reason for it. I still don't understand why. But I will heal, and I will move on, stronger than before. I promise you guys that.
It's been really stressful lately between that and medical appointments. And I'm not done. Monday I have a CT scan on my head, which hasn't been done in a while. And then I have a checkup which was SUPPPOSED to be on June 21, but had to be re-scheduled to Monday. So a lot coming up next week.
My heart goes out to all those impacted by the London tragedy. It makes you question your faith in the human race at first, but then seeing all those people doing the best they can to assist emergency personnel reminded me that there IS some good left in this world. We just have to find it.
That's all I can think to say for now. I'll drop in later today probably.
As you've all seen elsewhere in this forum, I'm dealing with my own heartbreak. It's hard. Especially since before Monday, I felt there was a connection between me and this person. But it was not to be, and there must have been good reason for it. I still don't understand why. But I will heal, and I will move on, stronger than before. I promise you guys that.
It's been really stressful lately between that and medical appointments. And I'm not done. Monday I have a CT scan on my head, which hasn't been done in a while. And then I have a checkup which was SUPPPOSED to be on June 21, but had to be re-scheduled to Monday. So a lot coming up next week.
My heart goes out to all those impacted by the London tragedy. It makes you question your faith in the human race at first, but then seeing all those people doing the best they can to assist emergency personnel reminded me that there IS some good left in this world. We just have to find it.
That's all I can think to say for now. I'll drop in later today probably.
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Jacki, sleep deprived yet? I have 1 nephew and 2 more on the way (the nephew will get a brother or sister come Feb)... her sister is due in November (they are my best friends, whom I call my sisters)
Well, news to pass along.... activation may be closer than we think, from what I understand, it could be by the end of the week...I have drill this weekend, so hopefully, I can go from drill straight to Charleston AFB and report on Monday or Tuesday morning. Anyways, its been a long wait for those orders (since end of March). We had to get the base commander and the operations commander involved.... the orders took a really LONG time to arrive. (I should have left in April with everyone else). I'm really not nervous... its called I have no patience for the 'hurry up & wait' game the military plays.
Well, news to pass along.... activation may be closer than we think, from what I understand, it could be by the end of the week...I have drill this weekend, so hopefully, I can go from drill straight to Charleston AFB and report on Monday or Tuesday morning. Anyways, its been a long wait for those orders (since end of March). We had to get the base commander and the operations commander involved.... the orders took a really LONG time to arrive. (I should have left in April with everyone else). I'm really not nervous... its called I have no patience for the 'hurry up & wait' game the military plays.
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Hey all - just doing the quick pop in. I'll be offline for a few days, short family trip up to the Cedar Point/Sandusky/Lake Erie area: early Friday until late Tuesday. I probably won't check email, since I like to completely unwind from my usual activities while away from home. LOL So take care everyone, have a nice weekend. I'll be around today, tonight and maybe on very early tomorrow before we pull out. I will have S2K withdrawals but sometimes they are necessary!
Pojo - good luck to you. I wish you the very best if you ship out.
Jeremy - I thank you for your kind words regarding my brother-in-law's situation. Such a sad, sad thing to happen. We're all going to help him thru this, no matter what. That is the good thing here - he has a very large family, who rally around the person in need when something like this happens. What an asset to have when your life is about to change. They all get on the same page, ask what they can do to help and then they do it. I've always been very impressed at how they all seem to instinctively know what needs to be done and then do it, with minimal bickering. A direct result from being raised by the finest mother-in-law I could have ever asked for. An almost saint she was.....rest in please dear MIL.
Mary
Pojo - good luck to you. I wish you the very best if you ship out.
Jeremy - I thank you for your kind words regarding my brother-in-law's situation. Such a sad, sad thing to happen. We're all going to help him thru this, no matter what. That is the good thing here - he has a very large family, who rally around the person in need when something like this happens. What an asset to have when your life is about to change. They all get on the same page, ask what they can do to help and then they do it. I've always been very impressed at how they all seem to instinctively know what needs to be done and then do it, with minimal bickering. A direct result from being raised by the finest mother-in-law I could have ever asked for. An almost saint she was.....rest in please dear MIL.
Mary
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weather_sam wrote:How all, how's the weather tonight? It may be hot and humid, but I feel the need to heat up the kettle and make some hot chocolate. Anyone want a cup?
Starkville, huh? Any chance you attend Starkville UMC? Their youth group changed my life 19 years ago (July 11th, to be exact

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I haven't been around here for a while.
Mary, I hope all is a little better with your brother-in-law. I know, like you, that divorce is really difficult but in his case it's a real heart breaker. How lucky he is to have such a loving family for support.
Dee Bee, your dedication to and passion for your job is truly amazing.
Jacki, I'm so excited for you. Raising a new baby is the greatest gift God can give us. ((Hugs))
Well, my family could use a few of those Storm2k prayers. We just found out that my X has cancer of the prostate. He wasn't much of a husband (a very good musician). He is and always has been a terrific father and a good man. I'd appreciate some help from the prayer warriors out there. Thanks
I'll brew a pot of Earl Grey and make some iced tea.
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Mary, I hope all is a little better with your brother-in-law. I know, like you, that divorce is really difficult but in his case it's a real heart breaker. How lucky he is to have such a loving family for support.
Dee Bee, your dedication to and passion for your job is truly amazing.
Jacki, I'm so excited for you. Raising a new baby is the greatest gift God can give us. ((Hugs))
Well, my family could use a few of those Storm2k prayers. We just found out that my X has cancer of the prostate. He wasn't much of a husband (a very good musician). He is and always has been a terrific father and a good man. I'd appreciate some help from the prayer warriors out there. Thanks
I'll brew a pot of Earl Grey and make some iced tea.
Karan
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Karan,
Of course I'll pray for him. You are quite generous in your assessment of him and I applaud you for that. Your daughters must be devastated by the news. So sorry to hear this. Some men are just not cut out to be good husbands - my ex too. He was lousy at that. I survived and you did too. Sounds as if you hold very little resentment and again, that just tells me once again, you are a caring person.
My brother-in-law....oh my. That situation seems to change by the day. We were quite worried about him this week, wanted him to move out but now he's not budging. He explained in detail how he wants to remain in his home. It is quite large for one person but there are zero steps for him, if we move the laundry upstairs. An expensive contractor bill but I'm sure my father-in-law would gladly pay it. I am starting to imagine him alone in this house, with assistance from all of us. He's been alone for over 2 years as it is anyway, the wife and child gone so much. This could work, with changes. It is very sad though and an attorney friend of ours highly suggested he get counseling. He not only had a massive stroke, 5 years ago, but now his wife is about to leave him, taking the child. He can't be responsible for her care so a schedule will have to be worked out for proper visitation (we'd all gladly take turns going over to supervise for visitation, she's only 5). In time that wouldn't be an issue. Thanks for your prayers everyone. My heart has been heavy for several weeks now. I have dreams this is not happening and wake up, realizing it is. That his wife is back to being nice (she's turned very nasty this past week).
Other than that, I'm looking for that part time job still and trying to enjoy the summer. It's very hot and humid in Cincinnati right now. No relief almost.
Mary
Of course I'll pray for him. You are quite generous in your assessment of him and I applaud you for that. Your daughters must be devastated by the news. So sorry to hear this. Some men are just not cut out to be good husbands - my ex too. He was lousy at that. I survived and you did too. Sounds as if you hold very little resentment and again, that just tells me once again, you are a caring person.
My brother-in-law....oh my. That situation seems to change by the day. We were quite worried about him this week, wanted him to move out but now he's not budging. He explained in detail how he wants to remain in his home. It is quite large for one person but there are zero steps for him, if we move the laundry upstairs. An expensive contractor bill but I'm sure my father-in-law would gladly pay it. I am starting to imagine him alone in this house, with assistance from all of us. He's been alone for over 2 years as it is anyway, the wife and child gone so much. This could work, with changes. It is very sad though and an attorney friend of ours highly suggested he get counseling. He not only had a massive stroke, 5 years ago, but now his wife is about to leave him, taking the child. He can't be responsible for her care so a schedule will have to be worked out for proper visitation (we'd all gladly take turns going over to supervise for visitation, she's only 5). In time that wouldn't be an issue. Thanks for your prayers everyone. My heart has been heavy for several weeks now. I have dreams this is not happening and wake up, realizing it is. That his wife is back to being nice (she's turned very nasty this past week).
Other than that, I'm looking for that part time job still and trying to enjoy the summer. It's very hot and humid in Cincinnati right now. No relief almost.
Mary
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