yoda wrote:Oh dear. I will take the plunge in this fray here. Here goes...
I have no problem with gays in the community or anywhere. I believe that people should be able to do aything they choose, as long as its legal. The human spirit and mind should be unimpeded and allowed to spring forth. Now, I believe that there should be no amendment saying that only a man and woman should marry. What's the problem with having gays marry? According to recent lawsuits, the government may not invade the privacy of a person's home without prior consent or if there is known illegal wrongdoing going on inside the house. I have no problem with anyone who is gay. I smile and say, "That's cool!" and leave it at that.
I just hope they don't come on to me, though..
Also, I totally agree with what John McCain said yesterday...
Matt
Dude, chances are good that, in your lifetime, you might turn at least *one* gay guy's head if you're good looking.

Don't fret it. If it's physical, sure -- stop it.

But just a crush or asking you out, just be flattered and say no. It's no biggie to us. Besides, if you were in our world, you'd know that not everyone looks the stereotypical part of a gay person. So, sometimes it's hard to tell and we take risks by asking someone out who we later find out is straight. Just as some straight women find guys attractive who they later find out are gay and how some straight men find women attractive who they later find out are gay woman, there are those of us who find people attractive who are, darn it, straight.

It's the same in the straight world -- you can't always get what you want. If someone is not your type (looks, brains, sexuality, whatever), they're gonna turn you down. People deal with it everyday and they move on.
