Daylily,
I've mentioned about a home nurse to my mother after reading your post and we just can't afford one...even with insurance in part paying for one. Thank you though for that advice, Wxbuddy.
Mary,
So very sorry to hear of your brother-in-law's other health woes, Wxbuddy.

We haven't heard back yet from this other surgeon at Duke...but she would sure be like an angel if she could see my Mom and what could be done for her.
I don't even understand how a doc like Lori Lilley here in Raleigh


We're just at our wits end...I'm about ready for counseling myself after a while...
Eric