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#61 Postby rainstorm » Sat Jun 11, 2005 9:25 pm

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rainstorm wrote: she may really have liked you and wanted to what you were like. by telling people and bragging, and also by listening to rumors, you put her in an extremely awkward position.

and, dont tell your private business to anyone.


those are a couple of exellent points. Some people (maybe her) get uncomfortable when their business is everyone's business.

And John, don't go back to work and make a big to-do about what didn't happen!


good point yourself. i am still available for an s2k advice column. i wanted to do one before but ticka(during her reign of terror) turned me down
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#62 Postby Kelarie » Mon Jun 13, 2005 11:27 am

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Josephine96 wrote:yes I would say we all do.. I hate to bring this up.. but at times like this.. it makes me wonder.. why the heck don't girls like me..? I am "loved" by a lot of members of the opposite sex..

But that "love" is of course, friendship.. "I'll be there when you're in trouble" but not "I love you like a bf" type.. If that makes any sense lol..

Is there something I have or don't have..? Some say it's because I am an absolute sweetheart.. Some say it's because I really don't have a "wild side" and some say it's because I don't have a car lol Those are 3 of the reasons I have sometimes heard about girls not liking me...

I haven't got the slightest clue..


I have the same problem. That is why I gave up after ONE dating relationship last year. :( All through my school years, I was not into sports (playing or really spectating), nor did I really have the "looks" (that is why I don't have a photo in S2K gallery by the way). I rarely got in trouble; heck, the only time when I went to the prinicipal's office was to report something ANOTHER student did to me. The teachers adored me; my high school teachers just dreaded the day I graduated (yeah, they were happy for me, but well, I was a perfect to near-perfect angle). :D

What did I do on Friday/Saturday nights? I studied. I still do now that I am in college. That is probably another turn off. In some ways, I am TOO polite (this helps a BUNCH with my job in customer service :) ) When I hung out with Emily, her boyfriend and some of her other friends, I noticed that they got wild sometimes. If you were to meet me, I am NOT wild!

Finally, it is a nasty "catch 22" in a way. There are girls out there that are more "lighter" in a way, don't go to wild parties, etc. It is just that they are shy, don't get out much, just like the guy who may be shy and is not as out-going. Hence, it is very hard to meet!


This is to both of y'all. It doesn't matter about all of that, when the time is right the right woman will come into your lives and appreciate all of those qualities all of those other women didn't. Trust me, I was the female equivalent of y'all. but it happened to me. I didn't happen until I was 32 and had given up on the dating scene. But the one thing that I had going on was I was completely happy with my life as it was, so when the man that is in my life now just adds to the happiness.

So the moral of my story is continue being that absolute sweetheart, nice guy, because there is a woman out there who does want that. Trust me on that. If you want to meet new people, try church, musuems (sometimes they will have mixers, the ones in Austin do), parks (walking dogs, women love dogs), etc. Just my two cents.
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#63 Postby Skywatch_NC » Mon Jun 13, 2005 1:39 pm

So sorry, John. :( ((((HUG))))

Sounds like Theresa has ALOT of issues and needs some professional counseling...IMO. :larrow:

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#64 Postby Josephine96 » Mon Jun 13, 2005 6:12 pm

Thanks Eric.. By the way.. I finally found out lol.. There's no H lol.. She hasn't said much to me since Friday.. I hope she's not mad at me.. but in a way.. I kinda don't care lol.. Oh well.. :roll:
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#65 Postby Guest » Mon Jun 13, 2005 6:17 pm

Josephine96 wrote:Thanks Eric.. By the way.. I finally found out lol.. There's no H lol.. She hasn't said much to me since Friday.. I hope she's not mad at me.. but in a way.. I kinda don't care lol.. Oh well.. :roll:


The "aftermath" is still probably with her. That is a good attitude to have. Give the girl the silent treatment!
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#66 Postby Pburgh » Mon Jun 13, 2005 6:30 pm

Oh here I go again!! I say nothing did happen so you don't have to act like it did. Don't give her the silent treatment. Just treat her like you would normally treat a fellow worker. Don't let the workplace gossip feed upon you. I think I've said this before, but please don't get so worked up over a friendship. Relationships take a loooooong time. Relax and enjoy all the wonderful people you will meet. You'll find the right girl at the right time. ((Hugs))
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#67 Postby Josephine96 » Mon Jun 13, 2005 7:16 pm

For anyone..

I am not and HAVE NOT been giving her the silent treatment.. She even smiled when I say Hello to her when she came in yesterday.. lol

I'd never give someone the silent treatment unless they absolutely deserve it.
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#68 Postby Miss Mary » Mon Jun 13, 2005 7:47 pm

[quote="Pburgh"]Relax



What I've been ~trying~ to say all along. Relax! Thanks Karan. And now I'll allow others to post.

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#69 Postby Josephine96 » Mon Jun 13, 2005 8:14 pm

LOL Mary..

I have been relaxed.. I'm just trying to move on.. I even heard a lot of praise from my church members when i told them how I stood up for my beliefs regarding the situation
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#70 Postby Miss Mary » Tue Jun 14, 2005 9:20 am

Josephine96 wrote:LOL Mary..

I have been relaxed.. I'm just trying to move on.. I even heard a lot of praise from my church members when i told them how I stood up for my beliefs regarding the situation


John - you just need to relax in general, 24/7! That is what Karan is trying to say and what I've been getting at. When a person wants to find a g/f or b/f, other people pick up on that - big time. And it can scare the other person off. Again, in a big time way.

If you could just reach the point of saying to yourself - forget dating, I'll take a long break from it - I honestly think it would be in your best interest. Try it. And if you accomplish this difficult task, I suspect it is precisely when you may meet someone.

I liked someone's suggestion about joining clubs, volunteering, etc. Get busy, just lend a helping hand - in your community, join book clubs, softball teams, etc. Just get out and meet people, strike up casual friendships and who knows what will happen a few years from now. If you were my child, at your age, this is exactly what I would recommend for my daughters. Get involved, date casually if you must but enjoy life. 21 is an awesome age! Only comes around once ya know, ;-).

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#71 Postby Guest » Tue Jun 14, 2005 9:51 am

Miss Mary wrote:
John - you just need to relax in general, 24/7! That is what Karan is trying to say and what I've been getting at. When a person wants to find a g/f or b/f, other people pick up on that - big time. And it can scare the other person off. Again, in a big time way.

If you could just reach the point of saying to yourself - forget dating, I'll take a long break from it - I honestly think it would be in your best interest. Try it. And if you accomplish this difficult task, I suspect it is precisely when you may meet someone.

I liked someone's suggestion about joining clubs, volunteering, etc. Get busy, just lend a helping hand - in your community, join book clubs, softball teams, etc. Just get out and meet people, strike up casual friendships and who knows what will happen a few years from now. If you were my child, at your age, this is exactly what I would recommend for my daughters. Get involved, date casually if you must but enjoy life. 21 is an awesome age! Only comes around once ya know, ;-).

Mary


Good point, Mary! I did not follow that rule :oops: about sending a signal to the other person that I need a girlfriend (then, I was looking into it); I guess I went too fast and somewhat scarred my one and ONLY potential relationship off. :(

HOWEVER, John, you may find that dating and the stresses that come along with it may eventtually lead to you cardiological (heart) problems. I am 23 years old, but in my "dealings" with Emily late 2003-Aug 2004, if I were 20 years older, I would have had some medical problems (blood pressure and who knows what else).

Are the physical (and the psychological effects) worth it with dating? FWIW, I don't miss my dating YEAR. :) Stress, stress, stress. Plus, something would not be right with the world if Brian dated; and something may be WAY out of alignment if I had a girlfriend. :lol:

Just relax! Don't listen to my previous statement about silence treatment. I slowly pushed my away from Emily because she was VERY immature. Tereasa sounds mature (perhaps unstable with relationships). Of course, I have not seen this girl, so I don't know! LOL Just go on with your business, sit back and look at the big picture. Let's see, I only live this life once. Ask yourself "Why would I want to spend it dealing with relationships?"
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#72 Postby sunny » Tue Jun 14, 2005 9:59 am

lol - not to mention the fact that being so wound up about "finding someone" is a real quick way to make people run the other way!
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#73 Postby Guest » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:02 am

sunny wrote:lol - not to mention the fact that being so wound up about "finding someone" is a real quick way to make people run the other way!


Where were you, Sunny, two years ago? :lol: ;) I got to the brink of getting sick to my stomach, getting frustrated I was missing out on the best years of my life. (Honestly, I think the best years come once you retire... ;)) I finally met a girl in college two years ago this September, and pushed hard.

JOHN... Don't do what I did! ;)
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#74 Postby sunny » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:04 am

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sunny wrote:lol - not to mention the fact that being so wound up about "finding someone" is a real quick way to make people run the other way!


Where were you, Sunny, two years ago? :lol: ;) I got to the brink of getting sick to my stomach, getting frustrated I was missing out on the best years of my life. (Honestly, I think the best years come once you retire... ;)) I finally met a girl in college two years ago this September, and pushed hard.

JOHN... Don't do what I did! ;)


Yep, you push me and I go the other way. Being pushed makes a woman nervous. Things HAVE to allowed to happen naturally.
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#75 Postby Guest » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:06 am

sunny wrote:
NEWeatherguy wrote:
sunny wrote:lol - not to mention the fact that being so wound up about "finding someone" is a real quick way to make people run the other way!


Where were you, Sunny, two years ago? :lol: ;) I got to the brink of getting sick to my stomach, getting frustrated I was missing out on the best years of my life. (Honestly, I think the best years come once you retire... ;)) I finally met a girl in college two years ago this September, and pushed hard.

JOHN... Don't do what I did! ;)


Yep, you push me and I go the other way. Being pushed makes a woman nervous. Things HAVE to allowed to happen naturally.


I could have used that advice!! :lol: ;)
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#76 Postby sunny » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:07 am

NEWeatherguy wrote:
sunny wrote:
NEWeatherguy wrote:
sunny wrote:lol - not to mention the fact that being so wound up about "finding someone" is a real quick way to make people run the other way!


Where were you, Sunny, two years ago? :lol: ;) I got to the brink of getting sick to my stomach, getting frustrated I was missing out on the best years of my life. (Honestly, I think the best years come once you retire... ;)) I finally met a girl in college two years ago this September, and pushed hard.

JOHN... Don't do what I did! ;)


Yep, you push me and I go the other way. Being pushed makes a woman nervous. Things HAVE to allowed to happen naturally.


I could have used that advice!! :lol: ;)


I'm sorry :(

I'm here now, though :D
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#77 Postby Miss Mary » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:08 am

It is so hard to allow others to learn from our past experiences and mistakes. But that is what we're trying to help you with John - learn from us. Please! Sunny and Brian both speak from experience.

On the other hand, I remember what I was like at 21 - thought I knew it all. And didn't want to listen to anyone. So I do try and cut you a lot of slack, b/c of your age. While I was getting mighty frustrated with you last week, I find myself having more patience with you this week John. Just please re-read thru all of the responses you received on this thread. And try sincerely to take them to heart - put dating aside for now. I 100% think you'd be much happier. Revisit the idea of dating around Christmas. See where things stand then.

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#78 Postby sunny » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:11 am

Miss Mary is right. "It" happens when you least expect it to - TRUST ME!!!!
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#79 Postby Guest » Tue Jun 14, 2005 10:17 am

Miss Mary wrote:It is so hard to allow others to learn from our past experiences and mistakes. But that is what we're trying to help you with John - learn from us. Please! Sunny and Brian both speak from experience.
On the other hand, I remember what I was like at 21 - thought I knew it all. And didn't want to listen to anyone. So I do try and cut you a lot of slack, b/c of your age. While I was getting mighty frustrated with you last week, I find myself having more patience with you this week John. Just please re-read thur all of the responses you received on this thread. And try sincerely to take them to heart - put dating aside for now. I 100% think you'd be much happier. Revisit the idea of dating around Christmas. See where things stand then.

Mary


Mary, that actually felt good! :lol: Brian + dating experience. Ahh, anyway, you will be happier, John, if you do place dating aside. I remember when I gave up with Emily last August. Yeah, that pretty much scarred me for life, as far as relationships go, but sometimes you just have to do it. I was beginning to dislike her habits anyway, so it made it all the more easily to "dump" her, but you kind of win from the outcome. First, it is Tereasa's loss (yeah, she had a boyfriend, but didn't you mention she was beginning to dislike him?). If something goes the way of dodo bird in that relationship, she might be the one turning desperate. Second, you are victorious in letting Tereasa know you are not the type of person who dates someone when they are seeing someone else (the incident at the store last Friday?) Third, chalk another "W" up for John! :) :lol: Obviously, she does not deserve you if she is going to not stand up and say "no, sorry, I can't go out with you." Instead, she agreed to do the "date".
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#80 Postby Josephine96 » Tue Jun 14, 2005 4:38 pm

For the LAST TIME.. LOL

I am NOT just out looking for a young lady to be my gf. I just happened to develop feelings for Ms. Teresa and acted upon them.. I have gone on only a couple dates since the incident 2 years ago..

You guys are trying to play me like a "serial dater" which I certainly am not..

Yes the incident regarding Teresa happened Friday.. I'm still hearing praises from anybody who happened to be a witness lol..

I also told her that if her and her bf break up.. not to come running because I wouldn't exactly save her since she did lie to me..

Anyway... That's about it for this reply.. lol
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